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Kaylie
Kaylie
Мама дочки-младенца

From the guy that hasn't been able to see her for three months because he has a protective order towards myself and the…

From the guy that hasn't been able to see her for three months because he has a protective order towards myself and the baby and got arrested for violating it and "terroristic threats" toward me and my family, never paid a penny for her, and threatens me every single day for not letting him see her because he's a psychopath, threatens to kill me, says he's affiliated with a gang, and has serious mental issues.

WHAT THE F did I get myself into by getting involved with him EVER. And now this is the stupid shit I have to deal with till I can get his rights terminated. And even after that, he's never going to leave me alone.

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erinflaherty818

Erin

Многодетная мама (5 детей)

@alainasmommy916, he stopped visiting and she found out he had moved, and after awhile, she just moved away and kept it hush.

alainasmommy916

Kaylie

Мама дочки-младенца

@erinflaherty818, how did she get away? Did the father get his rights taken away? My baby's dad still has visitation (supervised) can you believe that??? We go back to court in two months and I'm going to bring EVERYTHING he has done out on the table and let the judge hear it and try my hardest to get his taken away. He does NOT deserve them. But I have no choice to stay here and let him visit her. If he ever even does come visit 🙄 he's missed his first two weekends already. And then comes to me and complains about it being able to see her.

erinflaherty818

Erin

Многодетная мама (5 детей)

Wow, momma, you've got your hands full :(. You're doing the right thing, your daughter is beautiful! I have a friend who had a similar situation, and she ended up declining support and moving far away, disappeared off social media and the internet, just to get away from her sons father, he's 11 now and has no idea about the craziness his dad brought into his life from the day he was born. I hope you and your gorg girl can find the same peace!

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Ashley

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

Ahh got you I'm sorry eventually they will not let him get bailed out your lawyer can ask that he have no bail since she isn't listening just wait it out till Monday and go see him and have him call

alainasmommy916

Kaylie

Мама дочки-младенца

@mommysbabies, he's not. That's why he's been arrested. He's going to be arrested again but just gets bailed. My lawyer told me not to block him yet because the more shit he tells me and we have on him, the worse it will be for him.

alainasmommy916

Kaylie

Мама дочки-младенца

@lovingbabyr, yup. Don't give the kid his last name. He forced me to, and it was my biggest mistake.

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Ashley

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

Block his number or change your number if you have Order of protection I don't think he is even allowed to contact you

lovingmyboys

A G

В ожидании первенца

Sorry u gotta deal with that girl I'm dealing with something similar pretty sure it's gonna get worse when my son is born 😩

I worked a wedding last night and had to excuse myself when they had the father daughter dance because I got so…

I worked a wedding last night and had to excuse myself when they had the father daughter dance because I got so emotional because I know I personally will never have that, and what got me the most, my daughter will never have that with her real father. But, he can be a father to his first born son and not my daughter. I have all the proof I need to show that I've tried to keep him involved and ask him when he's gonna come see her but he dares to put the blame on me for "keeping her from him" my address and phone number hasn't changed. Smh.

So mamas I need advice. We take our son to the gym with us and they watch him in their kid care. Well this will be the…

So mamas I need advice. We take our son to the gym with us and they watch him in their kid care. Well this will be the third time that we’ve gotten called in there to get him because he’s supposedly doing something we’ve never seen or heard of him doing. When I went in there, the girl was holding him, he was in tears and so happy to see me and wanted me to pick him up. I told her I wanted to see him doing what he was supposedly doing. He went on to play with a toy nicely so I told him to come to me, picked him up and signed him out. While my man was still working out, I walked straight up to the general manager and told him I wanted to speak with him in his office. We reviewed the cameras together and my son was IN FACT not doing anything wrong but playing and she grabbed him by his arm for NO REASON and slammed him on the ground and he was on the ground for a good minute before getting back up. Right then and there was when we were called to come get him because he was supposedly throwing heavy toys at kids (which he never does). The manager apologized and then told us he would talk to her... what should we do?