Let me just explain something here.
I do not need a reason to tell my child no they can't do something. My child. At a young age they don't need an explanation that they won't understand.
Like, no you can't play with your electric car because your younger sibling is in the pool and I can't watch you both.
It's, no cause I'm the adult and I said so. Simple as that.
Also, the tantrums. Hell no. This 4 year old child DID NOT just tell me I need to apologize for saying no to her....
My son's half siblings are son fanned spoiled. Their mom wants to be their friend not a parent.
These kids hit each other, bruises and black eyes constantly! Even cuts! They barely eat anything healthy, it's constant candy and junk food. And you wonder why they are constantly sick!!!
I don't even let my son around them at all unless I'm there especially near water.
The 3 year old is constantly shoving him hitting him and most recently attempting to drown him!!! Laughing!! And his mom and my son's dad just laugh as they watch!! Saying it's just a game!!!
I can't wait to move north..... away from him
No court order, I willingly let him go. Now he knows it'll be at my house.
And I live with the dad, he's taking him to see his other kids. Not happening anymore.
While I live with his father we aren't together, I'm saving up to move out.
Wow. That is extra. And even if the 3 year old don't know any better. Its still the adult responsibility to keep an eye on the two of them. My cousin years ago went through something similar. But he had joint custody. So the meeting place was the local police office. I would recommend that if you are forced to let his dad see him again. So that evidence of how your son looked b4 and after his dad.
@lana30319
I'm just pissed his so called father doesn't see this as an issue!!
Your 11 month old child is visiting his siblings and coming back with bruises, scrapes, and cuts!!
He's got a 3 inch long cut right now on his temple and bruises on his face. He's 11 months oks and you think it's ok that his 3 year old brother wrestles and fights him ...
Im not letting him go back over there period. He wants him to meet his siblings it'll be at my house and that crap won't happen or he'll never see them until it's safe
I tell my 2 year old no. So girl keep doing your thing. A child without discipline is gonna have a higher percentage of being out of control later in life.

I love my son's stroller tho 😍😩 I'm so excited it's here I can't wait to have him in it 🤗
I need to ask someone this have you literally regret having a child with someone. I love my daughter with all my heart but I really regret ever being with her dad.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
stupid question, but...
How do you take a shower while there is a 2.5 year old in the house, when there is no one else to watch him? My son just started climbing out of his pack n play. I also work part time and need to shower before work. I can't keep him in bathroom because he will be constantly flushing toilet and pull everything apart in there, plus it's just dangerous with water on the floor
I am glad someone in the family can be an adult and responsible. And good for you for wanting your own place. There's no place like your own to call home. Just keep to your goals and the safety of your son. Cause you don't want him to turn things around. And make it seem like you are abusing your son. Please be safe and document all you can.