I don't smoke weed. So I guess I will never understand. But I'm not sure why people smoke weed when they're pregnant!

FTM problems...

So I've made it pretty clear that I want to buy my daughter her fist Halloween costume. Her babysitter/nanny keeps saying she wanted to make her one. I told her yesterday that I wanted to find her something that my SO and I could dress up as a family. So I told her I am going to get it. She just text me and said 'not trying to step on your toes but I bought her two costumes'. She does this all the time. Anytime I want to do the "first" things with her she immediately does it. It...

Hate adulting!

So someone in my neighborhood has 3 kittens they need to find homes for (not a breeder they just found their cat was already knocked up when they were going to get her fixed). Anyway they're adorable and my kids want one so bad. But it just isn't a good time despite wanting one myself. So I had to struggle and talk myself out of it. DH wasn't helping saying "just do it" ?. Lol sometimes I hate having to be an adult. How about you?

if I say I do not want my baby daddy's mom up to visit the baby when the baby is born can I say I don't want her there?

will my baby daddy have a say if she can see him?

When I was about 20 weeks I saw people asking how to bring on labour and other people saying 'they will come when they're ready' I thought yeah they will come when they are ready...NOW tho if one more person who isn't pregnant says that to me I will be very tempted to punch them in the face! I am uncomfortable, hot, achey and fed up now so I want her here NOW! Haha!