So this is the first weekend in almost a year we haven't had the boys. Josh complained about me…
So this is the first weekend in almost a year we haven't had the boys. Josh complained about me working my weekend job because he wanted to "spend time with me on the weekends" first thing he wants to do this weekend after I had quit? Go get the boys and take them fishing. I mean...maybe I shouldn't be upset but it's like we just had one for 18 days straight and the other for 7 so it's not like he hasn't seen them. It just makes me feel a little frustrated that he acts like he can't spend time with just Kinlee and I and if he does he can't enjoy it. I mean that's what happens when you have kids with two different people dude. You see the boys all the time. We never go more than 3 days without seeing them and it's not like it's a new thing that he doesn't see them every day...it's been like this for over 7 years. I know he loves them but come on....am I wrong for feeling like this? It's not like I'm saying love Kinlee more since you're with me, I'm saying act like you enjoy your time with us even if they're not here and let they're Mom and step dad enjoy their time with them.
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I would say sonething
Ariel Bruce ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@beebaby, I have once and he was like "well you go without seeing your kid for three days and see how you like it, I see Kinlee every day!" I thought about trying to talk to him again, though he just kinda makes me feel like the bad guy. It's not like I ever say "don't get your kids" shoot I have them all the time whether he is here or not. I love spending time with them too, but what's so wrong with spending time with me and our daughter...alone?
Lacie Marie·
Your not wrong at all. Id deffintly bring it up to him
Lacie Marie·
He should make you and your daughter feel equal to his other kids.. shes going to grow up and see that daddy wants his other kids more then her and its going to break her
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Well you cant tell someone to quit and the first opportunity available to have time together you leave. That is foolish. Who watches the baby while you work on the weekend?
Ariel Bruce ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@laciemarie, I agree! It's not her fault you chose not to be with their mom. It's not your fault you chose to have a baby with me (well she was a surprise, but you chose to have sex that's they way it goes buddy!) and I'm not saying he doesn't love her but he just acts like he can't pay her too much attention because what if the boys think she's getting more? Dude! They have four parents now, they get lots of attention from all of us. They're Mom has a little girl now too with her husband. I'm sure they don't say well sweetie you're brothers aren't here so we better not give you too much attention or go get them from their father so we can spend every second with you and not with them.
Summer Holmes·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (32 нед.)
Man this would tick me off if my husband had another kid from another mother and did this to his daughter I would have a talk with him on how would your daughter feel you spending a whole of time with your other kids and not enough with your daughter. Sorry I pray and hope everything gets better between y'all two.
Ariel Bruce ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@amelliaholmes1457, thank you, so do I. I mean I'm sure after 11-12 years of only having the two it would maybe be difficult to figure out how to share your time since we don't have them every day and we do our daughter. But that is not her fault and I feel like he is definitely going about it the wrong way. I'm going to talk to him about it, I just wanted others opinions to make sure I wasn't just being crazy or ridiculous!
Summer Holmes·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (32 нед.)
No your not he's just not thinking about that he had another child to spend time with her.