What do you do, or how can you react, respond. When your bf tells you he doesn't want anything to do with you because he found someone new? I need advice on how I can cope with this, I feel so broken, so lost, confused. Its been a month after I seen my bf from his mct graduation from the marines after its been good till he started to change, within tuesday from then he changed. I got a feeling and trust me when I get a feeling they never fail! I started to get clues within his IG & on snap when I noticed we weren't best friends anymore. The little heart went to a smiley face within one snap when I noticed, so we told each other that"we need to talk". We didnt get to actually talk within yesterday and today through texts. Long story short he told me he loved me but he doesn't want to hold me back from anything and that he found someone new. I was mad, broken, confused... Idk how to respond what to ask but I just dont know any more. I told him out of anger that I waisted my time of going out my way so much for him to tell me this. On how could he not want anything else with me if I see other marines more happy& getting engaged and so on. That confused me still does, he tells me he likes her just by how they can relate on some thins, I told him ive been there and I didnt hook up or meet someone else just because they went or are going through the same thing as me. Idk how to cope with this, we've been in each others lives for 6 years or so and we have so much history. This hurts bad, feels like I got sucker punched in my stomach and throat, I feel like karma came and nocked me down and hit me where it hurts the most. Idk what to do, how to feel, how to move on from this... I want to continue my life and not let this depress me but idk how I feel so broken..
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So I just woke up from my nap to this very rude message from my baby fathers sister this is the second time one of his sisters has said some very rude disrespectful things to me , I already told him about it & he addressed the situation but I feel a type of way , I'm so upset I don't even know what to say back to her without getting real rude & disrespectful how would you ladies handle the situation ?
My husband has me thinking twice about vaccinations I don’t know how to feel about it now..😩 he feels like we should not vaccinate .. our next baby and to stop vaccinating our daughter, and told me a story about his friends kid not being the same after a certain vaccination 😭 I seriously don’t know how I feel about this .. any mamas ever felt upset , confused ?
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
Let him go , not that it will be easy ... but at least he told you and if he is willing to move on then let him ... You can't control someone else's happiness if they aren't open to it being you. I learned the hard way , and it just ended up hurting . It's going to hurt regardless but at least you can have closure and everything happens for that reason , one day you will find someone that is effortlessly happy with you . Give yourself time , distance yourself for your child's sake (because they can sense tension) focus on your pursuits in life and how your child will benefit from you being happy .