What do you do, or how can you react, respond. When your bf tells you he doesn't want anything to do with you because he found someone new? I need advice on how I can cope with this, I feel so broken, so lost, confused. Its been a month after I seen my bf from his mct graduation from the marines after its been good till he started to change, within tuesday from then he changed. I got a feeling and trust me when I get a feeling they never fail! I started to get clues within his IG & on snap when I noticed we weren't best friends anymore. The little heart went to a smiley face within one snap when I noticed, so we told each other that"we need to talk". We didnt get to actually talk within yesterday and today through texts. Long story short he told me he loved me but he doesn't want to hold me back from anything and that he found someone new. I was mad, broken, confused... Idk how to respond what to ask but I just dont know any more. I told him out of anger that I waisted my time of going out my way so much for him to tell me this. On how could he not want anything else with me if I see other marines more happy& getting engaged and so on. That confused me still does, he tells me he likes her just by how they can relate on some thins, I told him ive been there and I didnt hook up or meet someone else just because they went or are going through the same thing as me. Idk how to cope with this, we've been in each others lives for 6 years or so and we have so much history. This hurts bad, feels like I got sucker punched in my stomach and throat, I feel like karma came and nocked me down and hit me where it hurts the most. Idk what to do, how to feel, how to move on from this... I want to continue my life and not let this depress me but idk how I feel so broken..
Let him go , not that it will be easy ... but at least he told you and if he is willing to move on then let him ... You can't control someone else's happiness if they aren't open to it being you. I learned the hard way , and it just ended up hurting . It's going to hurt regardless but at least you can have closure and everything happens for that reason , one day you will find someone that is effortlessly happy with you . Give yourself time , distance yourself for your child's sake (because they can sense tension) focus on your pursuits in life and how your child will benefit from you being happy .