This is going to be long but please take the time to read because I need advice.
So today my brother claimed that I messed his truck up, he left the widows down the other night and it stormed and now the window won't roll up and all the electrical is shot. He says that if I wouldn't have parked in his parking spot (he lives with my mom and I don't) that he would have not left his widows down but because he was going to go out and move his truck when I went home and I didn't leave until late he forgot and it's my fault. We got into a huge argument over this because I seriously could not believe he was blaming this on me. For one no one has assigned parking, it is my mother's house and she says I can park wherever I want, two, I park up front because I always have tons of bags, toys, all kinds of baby stuff with me and the 30 pounds worth of baby and carseat and don't want to lug it all across the road. When I said that he told me that I am just using the baby to my advantage! Because I don't want to have to drag all that and the baby across the road!! Made me so damn mad! He has a baby on the way so he will soon see. I then told him how inconsiderate and selfish he was, he will be standing on the porch when I come in with my hands full and has NEVER once offered to help, or even hold a door. When I was pregnant he would see me carrying in loads and loads of groceries and never help. I'm starting to feel like he's really is just selfish and only cares about himself. I mean what brother would want their sister that he knows is already wore out 24/7 and doesn't need any extra work to have to do that just so he doesn't have to park across the street? Is it just me or am I way off base? Oh yea the best part, after I started thinking about it after the argument, I didn't even park in his damn spot my mom did lol. I actually never park in his because he whines like a little girl so I always park in my mom's spot. But even that night my mom said that she'd move her car and he just walked inside.
That's my mom's answer to everything. But I am surprised she took my side some what, because lord knows her precious son can never do any wrong.
I wouldn't be able to brush it under the rug either girl. I hope things work out. That feeling of being disrespected and then shrugged off is not good. Just remember it's not you who had the problem. Good luck!
@brownsugarluv I told him to be a man for once and take responsibility for his own actions, which he has never done! My mom says oh he's just In a bad mood it will be ok, yea it will but until he apologizes to me I don't want to even speak to him. He will never say sorry for anything and he is NEVER wrong and I'm so sick of it. So unless he apologizes I'm done.
That's pathetic. Period.
He's being a baby because he messed up.
He can't get anymore senseless than that.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
so i txted my bd an told him i might wanna move the shower to the park instead of his sisters house because of our arguement an he ignored me so now i will ignore him an not tell him when the baby actually comes. am i wrong??
So my boyfriend just said he don't want to be with because his mom doesn't like me !
Him and his gf just got into it and hr seriously just text me and said sorry I guess I am an ass hole cause Christie agrees with you so it must be true.. Does anyone else think that is one pathetic apology?? If they wouldn't have gotten into an argument he would have never even text me. But don't text me saying sorry guess I am an ass hole. Say sorry for being the way I was yesterday i was wrong. I just don't see that as an apology at all .