okay I need y'alls opinion. Okay so my bfs(I guess I should call him that idk) mom has been wanting to see the girls but…

okay I need y'alls opinion. Okay so my bfs(I guess I should call him that idk) mom has been wanting to see the girls but I seriously ignore the message but because she had said to my bf that the girls were a mistake and ever since then it pissed the shit out of me so I told him I nor the girls will be going over because of what she said. Then he said she said sorry but I said no not until she says it to my face. am I wrong for being this way? I mean it really was fucked up for her to say that since Kayla is the one very close to her and for her to think that about my kids it hurts and pisses me off....