I understand.. We have lots of down and ups and downs over 11 years. Lots of it with money and poor choices​. Very fursrating.

@bonbonmomma, thank you 😁we will get through everything and anything....we just have to keep at it

The definition of a good wife 🙂

I've been with my husband ten years and it's been mostly bad luck and disagreements but we have still been faithful to each other in the process. I don't think you can say you really love someone fully until you go through the worst of times...several times lol

@jaymebaby07 oh I know what you mean. Things take time. One day you'll look back and realize how much has changed. It'll get easier :)

@opaquetitan1, it's hard...I have a lot to work on myself. We both have been working on ourselves individually as well as together. Sometimes it's just overwhelming. I know it will take time and things will change...o just wish sometimes it was easier lol

Sometimes you just gotta love them for them. My husband (then bf) and I lived together for 3 years, had a kid and got married in April. Just because it wasn't "traditional" doesn't mean that it wasn't right for us. You fell in love with him for a reason. Try not to focus on all the stuff he does wrong and think about the positive, otherwise it will be all you think about and drive you nuts. Its something I've had to work on.

We did everything so quickly and backwards lol I found out I was pregnant and then we got married. We didn't get married because I was pregnant but it definitely was a little bit of a factor. There are some days he drives me bonkers and I just want to punch him (like today) but I don't give up and I keep fight for what I want and love

That is definitely true. Honestly some days I feel like giving up because I'm just so tired and I don't feel like arguing or anything. I don't give up though because I know we can work things out and make it last.

Marriage is hard but working at it is what makes it fulfilling