You know getting pregnant and married as fast as it happened was a whirl wind and crazy. As a couple my husband and I have a lot of ups and downs good times and bad times (honestly speaking sometimes it's more bad than good) but no matter what happens I have stuck by him through it all. I understand that when certain things happen usually women would leave...i want to exhaust every option I have. I believe in my heart that my husband can change certain things about himself that aren't good.....(I can't really think of any other words to use) I love him dearly and want to be with him forever.
I've been with my husband ten years and it's been mostly bad luck and disagreements but we have still been faithful to each other in the process. I don't think you can say you really love someone fully until you go through the worst of times...several times lol
@opaquetitan1, it's hard...I have a lot to work on myself. We both have been working on ourselves individually as well as together. Sometimes it's just overwhelming. I know it will take time and things will change...o just wish sometimes it was easier lol
Sometimes you just gotta love them for them. My husband (then bf) and I lived together for 3 years, had a kid and got married in April. Just because it wasn't "traditional" doesn't mean that it wasn't right for us. You fell in love with him for a reason. Try not to focus on all the stuff he does wrong and think about the positive, otherwise it will be all you think about and drive you nuts. Its something I've had to work on.
We did everything so quickly and backwards lol I found out I was pregnant and then we got married. We didn't get married because I was pregnant but it definitely was a little bit of a factor. There are some days he drives me bonkers and I just want to punch him (like today) but I don't give up and I keep fight for what I want and love
That is definitely true. Honestly some days I feel like giving up because I'm just so tired and I don't feel like arguing or anything. I don't give up though because I know we can work things out and make it last.