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Shyla Marie
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I need advice. My boyfriend is going on a trip next week and he is going to be gone for 4 days. We're never really…

I need advice. My boyfriend is going on a trip next week and he is going to be gone for 4 days. We're never really apart, like ever. How do I cope? It's making me sad just thinking about him leaving 😕 (if you want to tell me I'm being dramatic, don't bother commenting)

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typicalwifegirl

Rhiannon V

Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

When we first started dating, my husband had a week long trip without me. I took the liberty of using his car and staying in his apartment while he was gone. (We lived apart at the time.) I just went and tried to enjoy myself the way I used to before we met. I went out with other friends, went shopping, went to work, and every evening we'd Skype or talk in the phone for an hour. Sure you miss him a lot, but try to remember it's not forever, and you used to do just fine without him. 😊


Maybe you can spend the time planning a big surprise for him when he gets back. Clean everything up, get him new bedding(or something new for a thing he uses every day), make him a special dessert, and try to get a babysitter for the evening he gets back so you can spend some time with him alone. 😄

happymama2julianna

Julianna's Momma

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☝🏼 I like her planning a awesome big surprise idea 😊.... and of course lots of FaceTime moments!

mermaidmeshy

Michelle Stansfield

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Do you have any friends locally? If you do, plan a day with them. Even if it's something "boring" like a Netflix day at home.


My husband goes off for weekends once in a while for work. I've come to enjoy that time alone, I get to binge watch my Netflix shows, eat the food he won't eat. (He's weirdly picky about taste and texture, we think it's a cleft palate thing... who doesn't like avocados?!) I'll also go out with my girlfriends or if it's summer, go to the local pool and swim.

tatsandcats

Erica

I'm the same way when my bf goes for a couple days!

shylamarie

Shyla Marie

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@brendamariex3, @typicalwifegirl, @happymama2julianna, @mermaidmeshy, @sarinasmomma,

Thanks for all the suggestions ladies! I think Ima use that time to hangout with my friends and my family 😌 I am going to miss him like hell ! But y'all are right, it's not forever ☺️

typicalwifegirl

Rhiannon V

Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

@shylamarie that's the spirit! Let us know how it goes!

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?