We need as many prayers or blessing coming our way.. April 1st my fiancé had lost his job. His dream job I should say. With that job my fiancé and I rented our first townhome. We adopted our first puppy. We bought our first car. We were doing good. Setting money aside for future purposes. Then he lost it. Everything started falling apart from there. My grandma is dying. My mother in law was diagnosed with breast cancer. Leaving me with no more daycare anymore. We lost our townhome had someone takeover the lease. We have no idea what to do with our dog now as we moved back into my moms and she can't have a dog. We asked family, friends no one can help us take care of her until we find another place. I lost my job as they were deleting positions at the hospital. This is taking a toll on our relationship. We're trying to do what's best for our little family. Only thing that's keeping us happy is our 8 month old son. Family are being rude to us, I've never seen my fiancé cry as much before. This is hard for us to get back on our feet
Yes . Often times more than not guys begin to feel weak if they can't provide for their partners . He's probably feeling unmasculine . My advice of needed would be just support him and let him know that he's appreciated for whatever he does if its just making the baby a bottle or taking out the trash . ya know .
Praying for you just know that if you both can get through this it will only make your relationship stronger.
@momofdeuce, yes as he was crying today I went up to him hugged him and didn't let go until he was done. Told him I loved him and he's an amazing person.