I need as much advice as possible mommy's

Okay so I'm in mexico rights now because my man is here at the moment till he gets a passport so anyway I'm doing labor by myself in the us his mom is letting me stay Sith her and wants me to cross the border June 10 but my friend from up here wants to cross and would cross June 15 I told him I want to cross June 15 and he was like it's not all about u and what u want to do

Do I have a say it's literally four days after his mom wanted me to cross but my man is trying to start a fight about it ? Opinions please before he gets home and I argue with him ????