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Melissa Smith
Melissa Smith
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So stressed out and tired of crying. So I just had another baby 4 weeks ago and this is our third. Along with having a…

So stressed out and tired of crying. So I just had another baby 4 weeks ago and this is our third. Along with having a toddler of 21 months already. Well, I have them screaming all day. And now to add to it my husband is talking about not knowing what to do with his career because his job is ending technically in July and I want to help him some way but I don't know how. He is talking about having to travel again and it almost broke up our marriage last time he traveled and now we have added 2 more babies to our family since then. I am either just really emotional about this or going through some sort of depression. But everytime I bring it up to him we just fight because he is stressed out too and I just don't know what to do... sorry mamas I just needed to vent I hate crying. :"(

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del_1513560881_sunflowerchildmamaa

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@mommyof3redheads, completely understand. I went through something similar. Just remember you got this. ❤️ it might seem like things won't change but do your part and your higher power will take care of the rest.

mommyof3redheads

Melissa Smith

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@sunflowerchildmamaa thank you and yes I know I do. It's just definitely hard to stay positive. :(

del_1513560881_sunflowerchildmamaa

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It's okay mamma. You just had a baby. It's okay to feel emotional. Just remember that at the end of the day you both have to do what you gotta do for your babies. Right now he really needs you. Be strong and be his back bone. And you need to STAY strong for your new baby. You got this.

I posted the day before yesterday about my friend.. & well....... her fiancé came over, AND she came alone 😐 we eat sit…

I posted the day before yesterday about my friend.. & well....... her fiancé came over, AND she came alone 😐 we eat sit around and after awhile my husband takes him to the back & the next thing I know he’s coming in the house with a weird look on his face, asking her if there was something he should know, I instantly gets up just in case someone turns into a maniac....... well long story short he cried & told her how disloyal she is & how disappointed he was.. she’s crying asking me why would I do that.. I’m like 🤷🏽 ♀ it wasn’t right........ Our other friends are saying that he’s giving her a hard time and that he sleeping on the couch, not eating her food and won’t talk to her.. she’s not talking to me (of course) & I now feel like we could have handled it in a different manner ... idk seeing a grown man cry like he did was just heart breaking!

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.