@kirstinw81 I hope everything is okay. Been waiting for an update all day. ❤

You HAVE to be your own health care advocate! I'm finding that out myself with my OB. I was a bigger girl when I got pregnant and I lost 30 pounds in the beginning slowly gaining weight again around end of second trimester. If you don't like the way your being treated or feel the care you are receiving isn't 100% you have every right to say something right then and there and request someone else. Try to relax I know it's hard! You will have your ultrasound today and they will hopefully treat you with better care! Fight for the care you want for you and your baby. Your baby could of just been in a bad position that day too. Or they are just a little stinker like ours is!

Yup I don't hear mine until like after 12 weeks

I am keeping you in my thoughts ❤

@kirstinw81 yeah I'm pregnant with my first. I'm 25 weeks and 3 days.

Wow I really hope everything goes good and it was just a false alarm or something. Stay strong and I will definitely keep you and your baby in my prayers 😘😘😘

@kirstinw81, they must have the dates wrong

My baby had passed away, and i had a missed miscairage wich resulted in having to have a D&C to remove her.. ill be praying for you hun

I pray this isn't the case for you! I will definitely be saying a prayer!

@mommabear17, I'm so sorry.. and don't worry about me. I need all of these infos for just in case !!! And thank you so much!!!

I don't want to concern you either but I lost my daughter at 18 weeks. No bleeding, cramping nothing. I had an ultrasound the week before and everything was normal. The next week she had no heartbeat and was about a week behind on growth. And I felt like I should have known something wasn't right because my belly shape had changed. But I didn't notice til after the fact. And I had a really sharp pain in my ovary and just thought it was ligament pain, and they said it was probably the day I lost her. Prayers with you and baby! ❤❤❤

@laciemarie, how did yours turn out...

Sounds simliar what happend to me a few years ago.. im so sorry

Honestly I would call and tell them you are concerned and is there anyway you can get in to see YOUR doctor. It's your right!

@lydia09876,

@kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom, you are not a downer because I have a feeling that's what might be going on but I will keep this hope that I have that my baby is okay. I'm so sorry you had a miscarriage though!! 😞

I don't want to be a downer, I'm just going to tell you that missed miscarriage are a thing- I had one. I had no bleeding, no cramping, my uterus grew but the pregnancy didn't progress. My body didn't know that the pregnancy wasn't viable. I'm wondering if that's what's going on? If they said you're measuring weeks behind, and they weren't able to find the heartbeat, the missed miscarriage thing may be a possibility. Not that I want that to happen to you. Either way, they should have rescheduled you for another week or two out to see if the pregnancy is continuing, as well as schedule blood work.

@juliaschade41, are you still pregnant ?? Or did you just have your first

@kirstinw81 I go through that fear every single day. This is my first too.

@nishaboo97, I hope everything does too!! And I for sure will!!!

@juliaschade41, that's why I talked too the manager and. Thank god he gives a shit about this stuff and is putting me in asap tomorrow for blood test and an ultra sound! I've done everything I could all day to distract myself but I don't think I'll even get to sleep!! I mean how can you sleep not knowing if your 1st baby, is okay or not?!?!!! 😞💔

@kirstinw81 I hope everything gets better ..u got me nervous😟😟 please keep me updated😟

@kirstinw81 what kind of doctor is that that they won't tell you what's going on!? I would freaking demand it!! That's not right! You need to find out for the sake of you and your body.

@nishaboo97, YOUR TELLING ME 😭😭😞

@danielleandco, I just hope my baby is in there somewhere alive and healthy... I've been doing m y best to take deep breathes and keep myself busy but I'm at home in bed and it just came to head and I'm loosing my f'ckin mind!!!

Goodneesssss😟😟

@kirstinw81,

You're fine I basically said I'm impatient and would go to the hospital but since you have a ultrasound set up tomorrow no need really just try to relax at 14 weeks my baby was moving too fast to get his heart rate taken lol they had to do a ultrasound to see he was flipping all over the place! Now hes 5 months old

@danielleandco, sorry my iPad glitched and it deleted your other comments. What did they say? And tomorrow.

@kirstinw81, so when are you getting that one done?

@danielleandco, The women that done it wasn't my doc and everyone said they hated her because she sucked at her job. I called the manger and he told me that she's retiring ( the girl that checked on me today ) and that the manager is giving me an ultra sound to get checked up on because he's worried and didn't like the news I told him.

I'd go to the hospital honestly

@_maraplus4, yes. They told me I've lost way to much weight after we tried hearing a heart beat