Ladies I need some advice. My daughter is nearly 7 months and I've only left her for maybe 2 hours…
Ladies I need some advice.
My daughter is nearly 7 months and I've only left her for maybe 2 hours with my mum or with her dad. My friend is having a birthday dinner and might go clubbing and I dno whether to go. She's still breastfed so I don't think it's a good idea but her dad is telling me to go and have fun but I know I'll just be worrying. She has co slept with me since she was born aswell so a night without me I dno how she will cope i dno what to do
Sara-Louise·
I totally get why your anxious & unsure but at the same time I do feel it's important for us Mums to be able to have a bit of us time to let our hair down. I rarely go out with friends but when I have it's only been 2 or 3hrs & I rush back as I've missed my boys. But I still have enjoyed a bit of time to be me if that makes sense. But at the same time if you really don't wanna go then that's fine too. You shouldn't feel forced to go out if your not up for it.
Alisha Pomells ·
@sara-lou86 yeah I know. I do need some time out I might just go to the dinner not the clubbing. Take baby steps lol and see how that goes x
Sara-Louise·
Yeh exactly. I'm way past the clubbing days so I usually call it quits after dinner or a few drinks anyways 😂
Alisha Pomells ·
@sara-lou86 yeah I think I'll do that. Clubbing doesn't appeal to me at all. I feel too frumpy lol and nothing fits so I think dinner and maybe a drink or two it is. Thanks for the advice x