I'm dilated to a 1 and starting to soften my cervic was up high though so he said I could be a two…

I'm dilated to a 1 and starting to soften my cervic was up high though so he said I could be a two and he could have pulled my cervic down but he said it would through me into labor. I've lost 3lbs which puts me at only gaining 10lbs and I'm freaking although he said it will be fine. Appt on Tuesday he told me that if I go into labor I need to do it this weekend or Tuesday so he can deliver.