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Caitlin
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I'm getting SICK AND TIRED of guys only wanting to have sex with me because I'm pregnant! How…

I'm getting SICK AND TIRED of guys only wanting to have sex with me because I'm pregnant!

How fucking hard is it to just simply go on a date and feel appreciated for once?! My body is changing in so many ways and not once do I feel like that means anything to anyone.! 😔😔

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nickee

Nicole Frederiksen

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Its very hard to find people who understand. Ive never had dating problems while pregnant but Ive had friendship problems. I lost a lot of friends while struggling to accept my pregnancy. They didnt understand what me and my body were going through. If i were you id lay low for awhile and not enter the dating pool yet. I personally dont trust people very much and would only be willing to put myself out there once my child isn't in my body anymore just in case they try to hurt me physically.

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caityyy_lynnn

Caitlin

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@nickee, I think that's why I haven't truly gone out there but I'm just struggling because I have my needs and I just truly want that feeling of being appreciated again... I don't have a lot of friends because they want to party and I can't anymore.. I just want that feeling again.. 😔

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nickee

Nicole Frederiksen

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@caityyy_lynnn Same reason why i dont have friends. 😕 That's why I've been joining all these mothering and pregnancy groups. It's really hard. And i feel bad because i feel like my baby should be able to make me feel better but i just feel really alone and it's frustrating. I feel like people just don't see you anymore when you're pregnant. Im all for everyone giving my baby attention because she's a queen and deserves it but every so often i miss when people would see me and my efforts and appreciate me. I get what you're going through. You're not alone. I know that doesn't fix the problem but it might help knowing you can talk to people who understand.

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caityyy_lynnn

Caitlin

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@nickee, that's why I love this app.. everyone is so great and understanding.. a lot of people don't even give my daughter attention or acknowledge her.. my family is starting too but no one else.. everyone just reminds me that I'm turning 21 in a few weeks and I won't be able to celebrate because of the "choices" I made. I can't do much, I can't go to amusement parks, I can't stand in the heat for to long.. I just sleep and eat..

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nickee

Nicole Frederiksen

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@caityyy_lynnn literally have been hearing the same thing for so long! "You cant do this or that because you chose to have sex" "maybe if you made better choices this wouldnt be happening" "we could go party but you decided to get pregnant" 😧 also with the not being able to do much- its extremely frustrating like id love to go outside and enjoy the great weather but guess who gets really bad hot flashes and cant even walk around for too long without her body freaking out. Im seriously hoping things get better once she comes out. I'm torn between being really glad that someone else is going through similar stuff and feeling terrible that someone is going through this because ive never been so miserable and its just exhausting

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momofboth

c. g

@caityyy_lynnn awww hun it's okay your baby is what's more important . Your going be a great mom . And your age has nothing to do with it because lots of women no matter the age won't really get to enjoy their birthday because they have kids which is okay because baby's are blessings hun . You'll see being mom is worth all the changes❤

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caityyy_lynnn

Caitlin

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@nickee, I can't even stand heat. I used to love summer, I'd go out and tan. Go to the beach. Now, I won't even get invited because they don't want to worry or hear me complain. My exercise is walking around my house and occasionally a store.. I think I'm getting depressed, honestly. I want to enjoy this pregnancy but from not feeling her move around yet, to no friends and guys wanting to use me, I just feel so terrible..

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caityyy_lynnn

Caitlin

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@mami1234, I'm not worried about my birthday.. I can go out and drink whenever after I have her.. guys will come and go.. I just feel so overwhelmed and feel so alone.. I want to enjoy this pregnancy so much but it's getting hard to do that..

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momofboth

c. g

@caityyy_lynnn your not alone 😊 . You have your baby wiggling around letting you know that she loves you ❤

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caityyy_lynnn

Caitlin

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@mami1234, I'm just hoping I'll feel her soon..

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momofboth

c. g

@caityyy_lynnn you Will 😊

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caityyy_lynnn

Caitlin

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@mami1234, I feel like it's just taking forever.. I don't know what it feels like or what I'm trying to feel..

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momofboth

c. g

@caityyy_lynnn oh you'll know when that time comes trust me

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