@tinawheetley i don't think it's good to find a guy that don't have kids becuase they'll never understand the responsibilities of being a parent and it even worst to find a guy who has baby mama drama its difficult

I know how you feel I have two with one on the way and I feel like I'll never find someone that will work out me having kids with another man

@ccanela26 nope you're not doomed God's going to create a great man for you just wait I was impatient and I would've missed out on my opportunity had I'd not given the man that's now my fiance a second chance and next thing I know we're engaged he's the best other half I've gotten and I thought it would never happen for me but it has

@sapphirelevaou yeah I've been honest and everything no luck I haven't had a real relationship to last no more than 9 months. Maybe I'm just doom to be alone

@ccanela26 although I'm not a single mom and not a mom at all yet still ttc, but I would say date like you would if you didn't have kids like be comfortable but ask him how he feels about kids and if he asks you right off the bat if you have kids just be honest because you shouldn't be scared of not getting a man just because he is the one not ready for kids or a family so just judge the guys based off of how their reactions are to when you say you have kids or when you mention them in conversation because if he tried to change the subject when you mention them then no you don't need to be with him because you deserve someone on your level and that doesn't judge single mothers and is fine with being around her kids