Just need to rant this off! My mom just moved back to NY from Texas. .. with my niece &nephew ((who…
Just need to rant this off!
My mom just moved back to NY from Texas. .. with my niece &nephew ((who are my younger sisters 2 kids)) well my younger sister is in Jail & has walked all over my mom from stealing to beating to robbing houses & A car. My mom took the kids to give them a life they deserved. Well my dad passed away 3 yrs ago .. & my mom is now 50 years old. So to raise 2 kids ages 5 & 1 1/2yrs old has been mentally, physically, & emotionally draining. She doesn't have alot of money, my dad was the bread winner & she worked an everyday basic pay job to get out the house & be prodcutive... so we ((all 5 of my other siblings)) convinced her to move back home to Buffalo so we help her with the kids &let her get better & back on her feet. Mind to u my dad's passing is just hitting her, she has lived in denial all this time bc he traveled for months on end for work so it was easy to do so. ..
Since leaving NY 8 years ago, she kept.paying on the house we had here bc us kids needed somewhere to live. So she rented each of us a room & our families over the course of time. & All other utilities & such were left to us to take care of. ..
Well the last 4 1/2 years my older sister had moved in with her family of 5!! Herself, husband & 3 kids. .. was supposed to be temporary. . Well now she is currently still there & thinks that house is hers! when she basically lives there for free bc she can never make her 900$rent payment to my mom. So she pays her in lump sums.. . When she wants. ..
Finally we convinced mom to come home so we can help her with the kids bc I couldn't stand to watch my mom any longer wither away to nothing but skin & bone & sounding constantly depressed bc it was all to much for her. . . NOW she's been home for a little more than a month. & the way my sister's are treating her is eating me alive from the inside that I'm about to snap & really hit them with a big check of reality. & prob will cause world war 3. .. but I got my mom's back no matter the situation. ..
Since being home my sister who lives there does nothing but bitch at my mom like she living in her house, doesn't help her at all with my nieces & nephews while my mom is caring & watching her 3 kids EVERYDAY so she can go to work. . .my mom came here without a job bc we all assured her WE WOULD HELP HER get on her feet again .. while I prob have given her at least 300$ since being.home to just put money in her pocket without any care if she pays it back or not. It's money, you can make more of it.. but yet my sister has the audacity to say no one does anything but her?! & giving the vibe to my mom IN HER OWN HOUSE. That now she is not wanted there & saying things like u said u would be moving out, & getting a job!! It's been 1 month! & with 2 babies she doesn't just have all the free time to get out there & look. . .mind you my sister even went & took my mom's 3 cats to a family member bc she doesn't like cats!! Then tells my mom ehat she can & can't so around the house, or when she can leave
.. tells her not to yell at her kids bc there saying things to other ppl outside the house!
LIKE ARE YOU NUTS?!? Your 30 yrs old, with a family of 5! You MOVE OUT, your the TENANTS. .. that's my mom's house she tends to forget that .. .then puts on this fake smile & lies everything just peachy in life &wonderful. While my mom's constantly calling me balling bc she thinks walking away from everything in TEXAS was a mistake bc everyone made it seem that everything would be okay & I'm the only person to actually help help her with what she needs instead of treating her like she is a live in Nanny that isn't even part of the family. .. I'm just sickened I know the post was long & on going but I had to get this shit out somewhere cuz I'm about to go KUNG FU PREGO ON these bitoches.
Wvgirl·
you definitely need to put your foot down and not let your sister treat your mom like that. i hate that for your mom, it is sad. my mom was only 54 years old and passed away March 5th. There's no excuse for your sister treating her like that.
Jillian·
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Oh noooo. Your mom needs to stand up to your sister. She seems like she needs to be put in her place and if your mom won't do it then you need to. It's not her house and if she's going to treat your mom like she isn't welcome in her own house then she can gtfo. Ultimately it's your mom's place and she needs to tell your sister that because she's probably not going to listen to anybody but your mom.
Cassie·
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You and your mom needs to put your sister out. Family or not she is renting that house for your mom. Your mother OWNS the house it's hers. If I was mom wouldn't watch none of her kids I would give her a certain time frame to fins somewhere else to stay BC disrespect is a no go and to disrespect the woman who gave you life and take advantage of everthing she's doing is just mad
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@cassieboo is so Right. Your sister is very WRONG, RUDE, AND DISRESPECTFUL. SHE is more responsible for her own kids . she is married. No excuse!!!!!! Pray for her mother speak up and stand up with her older daughter. House is not FREE. her mom has no job. She needs to pay her rent house and pay her babysitter, too. She need MONEY.... @kmarie1303
Kristenk·
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@lo@cassieboo vegod90 @jcbaby @danielswifey --- thanks ladies for reading my long rant! & believe me I couldn't agree any more with each & everyone of you. It has gotten to that point that sitting around &tip toeing around feelings & family just ain't cutting it for myself anymore. & I told my mom the exact same thing, & i can tell after today she is at the same point. .. they all took off for the weekend to go camping.. you think they even offered for her to go?? Or take the kids since they already will have 6 other kids/ toddlers there themselves? NOPE. & that was her tipping point today. It's honestly just disgusting to me.
Kristenk·
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Specially because we were not raised that way
Jillian·
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@kmarie1303 tell your mom to throw all of their stuff out while they're gone. Lol
Kristenk·
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Lol @jcbaby she wouldn't. But I did tell her to go pick up her cats while their away since they got rid of them while she went away for a week.