Ranting about hubby... again. I know. But I need to let it out, and don't care where. Well just got an email this morning from a guy friend, whom my husband knows too. (There's no secret there.) My friend told me my husband had sent him an email, asking if he's been contacting me.? Ok, Like with the fuck.? Why does he feel like he need to contacts my friends and seeing if there's been any contact. Ive lost friends because of my husbands actions. It's like is it really worth it to talk to hubby about it anymore.? Because he's going to be the way he is, and I can't change him. I'm just upset because I don't do that to him. I know he's need some privacy in his life, doesn't matter if i don't like some of his friends/certain in laws. Regardless how they treat me.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Biggest Baby on BB
I know I don't have the biggest baby here but I know he's right up there.
So last night my husband pretty much told me that if I don't have sex with him that he would cheat on me....I was like wtf. I was like you would seriously cheat on your pregnant wife?! I also told him that if he cheats on me I will NOT hesitate to file for divorce. I don't need my girls growing up thinking that cheating is ok. This was after we tried to have sex but it hurt too much so I told him to stop. When it comes to sex my husband only thinks about himself lately!!!! 😒😒😒😒
I swear I don't have a normal husband. This pregnancy makes me wake up so aroused. I try to get him involved and he's like go shower.. wtfh. I've only been in the bed 😤. I need someone that is always ready to do SOMETHING ughhh. Freaking boring man.
Ugh 😒 so my husband and I can't come to terms on how we want to punish our son. He's into everything and my husband asked some friends of his who are also fathers how they handled their kids at this age. They told him they smacked their hands and said no. I don't agree with that. He's 9 months old. 😫 now he's mad at me because I don't agree with him and refuse too.
It's super hard because when my man is like this my initial reaction is to be angry/upset with him which pushes him away. But if he's acting like this he's obviously feeling insecure and needs to be reassured. . That's tough tho I'm sorry