Ranting about hubby... again. I know. But I need to let it out, and don't care where. Well just got an email this morning from a guy friend, whom my husband knows too. (There's no secret there.) My friend told me my husband had sent him an email, asking if he's been contacting me.? Ok, Like with the fuck.? Why does he feel like he need to contacts my friends and seeing if there's been any contact. Ive lost friends because of my husbands actions. It's like is it really worth it to talk to hubby about it anymore.? Because he's going to be the way he is, and I can't change him. I'm just upset because I don't do that to him. I know he's need some privacy in his life, doesn't matter if i don't like some of his friends/certain in laws. Regardless how they treat me.
It's super hard because when my man is like this my initial reaction is to be angry/upset with him which pushes him away. But if he's acting like this he's obviously feeling insecure and needs to be reassured. . That's tough tho I'm sorry