Hey moms! Question: when did y'all start trying having sex again after having your baby? I'm at almost 8 weeks, and still hurts to try and have sex with my fiancé.
I didn't rip at all and it still hurt me. Still to this day I'm 9 weeks post. I guess the more you try the less it will hurt. Like losing your v card over again.
@dtopp24, that could be the issue. But if it gets too bad, make sure you check with your doctor. 😔 hope things get better!!💓
@steffyyphung, no not yet. I know (from one friend) that it'd hurt, at least at first. Because of ripping top to bottom
@dtopp24, oh no .. have you tried talking to your doctor? Just to make sure nothing is wrong? Sorry to hear 😔
@steffyyphung, tried lube, still hurt and couldn't go long. I mean we tried before I couldn't get it in without tears.
I waited at least 2 months and it did hurt here and there.. I say about 4 months in, it started feeling better! you can also try lube?
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.

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My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
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