So I'm expecting my second little one end of August beginning September. But I can't help having mixed emotions about it.. I'm so excited for a boy but then I'm like will I give my oldest more attention or not enough I don't want them to feel like I favor the other and on top of that I'm just so overwhelmed with feeling like I have nothing ready for him when I was so prepared for my first. Idk what to do with a boy and then I feel guilty about having mixed emotions.. Ugh
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I'm definitely looking forward to her coming, just afraid it won't be the same type of love that I give him or enough. I don't want either one of them to feel like I'm picking favorites but he was my first baby. I just want to be a good mom
@loveerii, lol I was to scared to tell anyone that, I was so excited for a boy but when I try to go shopping I'm just not sure if I want a boy and it makes me feel awful but it's true. I to definitely feel bad about it. But just know your not alone. Having a girl is fun it's like looking at yourself in a tiny mirror and the clothes are super cute.
I don't know what to do with a girl at all. That's what I originally wanted but I've grown to love my little boy so much and I don't know if want a girl anymore 😞
@loveerii, well I'm glad to know I'm not the only one struggling. I look at my daughter and I just feel awful.
That's how I feel. I have a one year old boy and my daughter is due in less than six weeks 😕
@loveerii, well I feel the same way. But if your worried about being a good mom your probably a great mom. Don't beat yourself up to much and just breath.