I need help...
My bf and I have been together 8 months, lived together for 4 and I'm 3.5 months pregnant. I was so in love with him and ready to marry this man; he's so seeet and selfless when it comes to my emotions. However recently I don't feel that "spark" anymore. I don't want sex, I don't even want to kiss him to be honest. I know it's harsh. He's so immature, as time goes on I'm seeing true colors come out and he can't be serious when he needs to be. I'm terrified he won't step up to the plate when the baby comes. I have to beg him to help around the house, I work 80 hrs a week at a physically demanding job and he works 40 at a desk job, I know that shouldn't matter but I'm always tired when I come home. I shouldn't have to pick up after a grown man, and cook every day for him. It's getting old. I'm half tempted to leave but everyone keeps saying it's just my hormones and to wait it out. But I'm NOT happy at all, actually I'm miserable all of the time and it's not fair. I'm terrified to raise this baby on my own, and idk what to do.
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The first half sounds the same to me and how I feel. We moved fast as well
Hes working and living with you..... Good guys are hard to find. No ones perfect, we all have our flaws, I say talk to him, have a serious conversation tell him your feelings.. Also the no sex drive that's normal to feel like that... I'm still feeling like that doing this pregnancy. Some pregnant ppl have no sex drive while others are so horny for sex.....
@dd1028 I'm facing being a single mom too. And I only work as a hostess at a restaurant. But you gotta do what you gotta do sometimes.
@juliaschade41, I'm just so scared of failure and not being able to make it on my own idk anymore
You need to do what's best for you. If you're not happy, then you're not happy. Its your life and your choice. If you think you can do better, then go for it. Nobody else matters at the end of the day but you.😊
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her ...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
i hope i have my baby this week...or in a couple of years...if he wants to come out...it's whatever he wants 😓
Thank you for your input ladies, I'm really not sure what to do, I just don't feel happy. But at the same time, he is my babies father and I feel like I want to make it work.