I need help...
My bf and I have been together 8 months, lived together for 4 and I'm 3.5 months pregnant. I was so in love with him and ready to marry this man; he's so seeet and selfless when it comes to my emotions. However recently I don't feel that "spark" anymore. I don't want sex, I don't even want to kiss him to be honest. I know it's harsh. He's so immature, as time goes on I'm seeing true colors come out and he can't be serious when he needs to be. I'm terrified he won't step up to the plate when the baby comes. I have to beg him to help around the house, I work 80 hrs a week at a physically demanding job and he works 40 at a desk job, I know that shouldn't matter but I'm always tired when I come home. I shouldn't have to pick up after a grown man, and cook every day for him. It's getting old. I'm half tempted to leave but everyone keeps saying it's just my hormones and to wait it out. But I'm NOT happy at all, actually I'm miserable all of the time and it's not fair. I'm terrified to raise this baby on my own, and idk what to do.
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I went through something similar...you can message me!!
The first half sounds the same to me and how I feel. We moved fast as well
Hes working and living with you..... Good guys are hard to find. No ones perfect, we all have our flaws, I say talk to him, have a serious conversation tell him your feelings.. Also the no sex drive that's normal to feel like that... I'm still feeling like that doing this pregnancy. Some pregnant ppl have no sex drive while others are so horny for sex.....
@juliaschade41, I'm just so scared of failure and not being able to make it on my own idk anymore
Thank you for your input ladies, I'm really not sure what to do, I just don't feel happy. But at the same time, he is my babies father and I feel like I want to make it work.