Venting a little here. I just don't understand men, period. My husband wants me share whatever that is on my mind. Which is what I already am doing. But he's not open with me. Another thing is,
he knows I need a break from our little one, he disappears first. If I bring it up, like a lot of times, his response is..."Why didn't you tell me you needed a break.?" Sometimes I just even bother bring it up. I feel like at times I shouldn't have to ask for help. He says he can tell how exhausting and tired I am when he looks at me. That's not a good enough clue to even asked if I need help. Not to say, he's not a good husband or father, sometimes his brain wires seems to be mixed up in there. 😖
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I've gone through this too with my husband. It was really bad! At the time i was a stay at home mom so I sucked it up and let it happened. When our little one turned one I went back to work and I noticed it would continue to happen. I work in the medical field. I would work 12+hr days and come home to still have to clean and care for our child. I had to sit him down and "talk" and spell it out that I two am tired even though I don't say it, that I too need a break from the world sometimes, that my job is stressful also. Ever since he started stepping up his game and now he reads my face when I come home and ask how was it and tells our little one let's go play outside mommy is tired. It takes time and blunt honesty but you'll get there girl
Ahahahahah! Men... really shaking my head and hands over my face. 🤦🏻♀️🤣 @chelsealynn0306,
My SO is the same way!!! It's so frustrating sometimes cause if they can see we're tired then in my mind we shouldn't have to ask for help
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I wish I had a Man by My side who understood the pain of first trimester. So long story short..BD asks Me if I need to pee before He showers I say No. Then after he's in the bathroom for quite sometime he comes out and says he's about to shower..I said I thought You already showered. He said No. Anyway mid shower I have to pee so I text him telling him I have to pee because I dare not knock on the door unless I want to get yelled at and called names. He comes out yelling at Me anyways telling M...
Omg ladies my 3 year old just asked me if i have sex with her daddy!!! I dodged that question so fast but ladies really my daughter is growing up too fast and too smart for her own good. I dont even know what to tell her if she ask again I thought i had a little longer before she asked that. I texted my husband telling him and he just laughed. He is no help.
So I think my husband has been trying to tell me something without telling me if that makes sense. The reason I say that is cuz there is this chick that would leave us alone and he told me to tell her yesterday that he send me a letter saying he wanted a divorce. But than when I call him back after talking to her. I ask if he really wants to get a divorce and he just laughs and says no I don't. I can't believe you would think that. But it's not the first time he has made me do this with another ...
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
@kayce, thank you for your input and your side of the story. It really helps with how I think and feel. ❤️👍🏻