Venting a little here. I just don't understand men, period. My husband wants me share whatever that is on my mind. Which is what I already am doing. But he's not open with me. Another thing is,
he knows I need a break from our little one, he disappears first. If I bring it up, like a lot of times, his response is..."Why didn't you tell me you needed a break.?" Sometimes I just even bother bring it up. I feel like at times I shouldn't have to ask for help. He says he can tell how exhausting and tired I am when he looks at me. That's not a good enough clue to even asked if I need help. Not to say, he's not a good husband or father, sometimes his brain wires seems to be mixed up in there. 😖
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I've gone through this too with my husband. It was really bad! At the time i was a stay at home mom so I sucked it up and let it happened. When our little one turned one I went back to work and I noticed it would continue to happen. I work in the medical field. I would work 12+hr days and come home to still have to clean and care for our child. I had to sit him down and "talk" and spell it out that I two am tired even though I don't say it, that I too need a break from the world sometimes, that my job is stressful also. Ever since he started stepping up his game and now he reads my face when I come home and ask how was it and tells our little one let's go play outside mommy is tired. It takes time and blunt honesty but you'll get there girl
Ahahahahah! Men... really shaking my head and hands over my face. 🤦🏻♀️🤣 @chelsealynn0306,
My SO is the same way!!! It's so frustrating sometimes cause if they can see we're tired then in my mind we shouldn't have to ask for help
@kayce, thank you for your input and your side of the story. It really helps with how I think and feel. ❤️👍🏻