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Erica Logan
Erica Logan
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I'm having a c section for sure. But me and my boyfriend wanted to wait for me to go into labor. My cousin basically…

I'm having a c section for sure. But me and my boyfriend wanted to wait for me to go into labor. My cousin basically said it was stupid for me to do that. But my lactation consultant said it's harder to breastfeed if you completely bypass labor because your body doesn't know to start. I really want to wait for labor. Someone tell me this isn't completely stupid...

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mrs.mommy.loza

Mrs.Mommy.Loza

Are you in the breastfeeding group?

exoticyuri

Erica Logan

В ожидании первенца

@mrs.mommy.loza, nope... I want my baby to stay in until he's ready

mrs.mommy.loza

Mrs.Mommy.Loza

Would you like to be added to it?

mrs.mommy.loza

Mrs.Mommy.Loza

I don't have that advice to give because I just had my first daughter and my water bag had a hole in it so they had to induce my labor early.

jasholbert

Jasmine 🌻

Мама дочки-младенца

@cubanese, is a breastfeeding expert. I've personally never heard that. Your body knows to produce the moment the placenta is delivered.

kambam

kammy

Мама сына-младенца

Csection for health concerns or??

eryka616

Eryka

I think that that is a great idea. Wait until your body and baby are ready

exoticyuri

Erica Logan

В ожидании первенца

@kambam, voluntary pretty much. The baby is a pound heavier than he should be. I'm scared to death of vaginal delivery. But I'm using his size as an excuse.

exoticyuri

Erica Logan

В ожидании первенца

@eryka616, yeah. It sounds weird but I kinda wanna experience labor and have it be a surprise.

exoticyuri

Erica Logan

В ожидании первенца

@cubanese, really? She said milk was delayed to those who had a scheduled c section.. but I wanted to wait to go into labor anyway so I thought it would be a win win

exoticyuri

Erica Logan

В ожидании первенца

@cubanese, mmmmmm.. thank you ! At least my classes with her were free. But since your sister has c sections... is it dangerous to wait to go into labor?

kambam

kammy

Мама сына-младенца

The recovery of csec can be difficult. Tearing hurts but the vagina heals sooo quick! I would urge you to let your body do what it is meant to ☺ if that fails then of course theres always the other option. Trust me I was scared too. Had no idea what to expect but when my water broke I was so ready to be done 😅 didnt even care what that was gonna take. I just focused and 12hrs later was blessed.

exoticyuri

Erica Logan

В ожидании первенца

@cubanese, I'm too scared to do it vaginally. Since I'm pregnant I had to stop my anxiety meds... it's stressful.

exoticyuri

Erica Logan

В ожидании первенца

@kambam, I can't do 12 hours of coochie ouches

exoticyuri

Erica Logan

В ожидании первенца

@cubanese, I pick the scalpel !!

kambam

kammy

Мама сына-младенца

Youre convinced huh 😹

reedtribe

v reed

Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет)

@mrs.mommy.loza, @exoticyuri, lol 😂 I felt the same way!

reedtribe

v reed

Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет)

I had 2 c-sections, no trouble breastfeeding. Either way there's plus and negatives to doing natural or c-section.

exoticyuri

Erica Logan

В ожидании первенца

@reedtribe, I'm doing a c section i just wanna wait till I go into labor before I do it

reedtribe

v reed

Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет)

@exoticyuri, are going in to get get induced?

exoticyuri

Erica Logan

В ожидании первенца

@reedtribe, no

reedtribe

v reed

Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет)

Are you late or any complications? Usually they don't schedule for c-sections unless those are going on. Most doctors would push on natural first. If you go into labor chances are your having in naturally. I had my first c-section because I was a week late and I went in to get induced by the morning my baby's heart beat dropped so they did an emergency c-section

exoticyuri

Erica Logan

В ожидании первенца

@reedtribe, I'm refusing

exoticyuri

Erica Logan

В ожидании первенца

I'm high risk though @reedtribe,

reedtribe

v reed

Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет)

@exoticyuri, just keep monitoring how your progress is going, that's something that can be decided when its closer to your date.

mamasenpai

Angelic Ramos

Мама сына-младенца

I had a C-Section and I produced milk no problem. Vaginal or C-Section so produce milk it it just takes like a day before you big let down. You'll be alright :)

del_1532019671_jaygirls

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Thats bull. I had my second daughter planned csection. We nursed til 4 month and I had oversupply. Actually milk came in 2 days later and I had pumped 12oz due to a clog duct.

del_1532019671_jaygirls

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Also from my experience. I went into labor with my first and had an emergency csection. Recovery was so hard and long after that. With my 2nd I went in for the scheduled csection and recovery was so much fast. Really depends on the body.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?