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Irina A

Hi! I just joined and feel excited:) I'm working mum of 5,5 y.o. daughter. We recently moved to another city of Russia…

Hi! I just joined and feel excited:) I'm working mum of 5,5 y.o. daughter. We recently moved to another city of Russia and I search for a circle (even virtual) of mums alike.

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luda_elistratova

ЛюдмилаМама дочки-младенца

hi! 😋

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ocoka

АнастасияМама сына-младенца

Hi! Welcome!)

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angelok80

ЛилияМама дочки (1 год)

😳

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anesteziya05101987

АнастасияМама дочки (1 год)

Hi. Nice to meet you.)

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Sorry ladies, I just feel like a rant lol 🤷🏽 & I don't really post on here 🙈.

Sorry ladies, I just feel like a rant lol 🤷🏽 & I don't really post on here 🙈. Do any of you mums feel you have been judged, criticised or mum shamed over how you do motherhood? Or feel like other mums are so competitive or think they're know it all's? You can't please alot of people, thats just how I see it and it seems there's always something somebody feels to criticise a mum over. Whether it's you're too young a mum, too old a mum.. judged for being a single mum, or un-married mum.. having too many kids or only having 1 child? Kids with different dads.. judged for being a bottle feeding only mum, or snobbed because you breastfeed in public or the baby is over 1.. judged for being a no career mum or a stay at home mum, or a full time working mum.. a c-section mum or epidural mum.. judged if you're not coping as a mum, or on a lower income trying to get by.. not being a yummy mummy or being an over glamourous mum.. or if you're not an organic vegan mum etc etc.. seriously the list goes on & on! I've learnt this just hearing how women judge and compete with eachother over motherhood and its so sad and exhausting to watch. I try to keep out of it personally, it hurts my head and a time waste lol, I admit there are times I think to myself that's not how I would choose to do something as a mum but it's not my business to criticise and I would never try to make someone feel bad about a choice they make. Also if I wanted to give someone advice I would try to do it without sounding patronising or putting myself on a pedalstool. As long as the baby/ kids are safe, looked after and loved that's what matters, Sorry just saying 🙂