I wonder if my relationship is even worth it sometimes
I feel like I'm gonna have this baby and we are going to be completely stuck and my fiancé literally just takes everything I say out of context. I beg him for days to please do the dishes and clean up around the house because I am so exhausted after work that all I can do is muster up the strength to get a shower and go to bed. He thinks I'm treating him like a maid but he doesn't even work. He sleeps all day and plays Xbox all night. He doesn't really do anything and acts stressed that we don't have anything but he isn't putting in the effort. He just makes excuses that are completely ridiculous and no one ever said they were preventing him from doing anything. I feel like the mature one in the relationship because sometimes he acts like he's 15. Now I feel bad because I'm thinking I'm going to be stuck raising a baby and doing everything myself as a single mom or just have a husband who refuses to do anything to help me out. I don't even want to work because I'm so tired but I do it anyways because I have to. We would be broke if I didn't work every day. I don't know what to do anymore. I don't see having a baby as being stuck or anything but I'm so worried for this baby and that I'm not going to be able to give him or her the life he or she deserves.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Creeped out!
A new guy at work just tickled the back of my neck! I cringed and told him "Don't ever touch me, that weirds me out!" On Monday he pulled my braid as I was grabbing parts for him, I also told him don't ever do that. Ugh. I don't feel comfortable working with him EVER! A coworker told me that when she walked past he said "what's cooking good looking". I feel he doesn't deserve to work here. I can't feel like I'm going to be harassed at work. Like who does that?? I'm so creeped ou...
My husband sucks, just because he works 7 days a week now because it's summer he does not want to go to a concert we we're invited to over a month ago. We never do ANYTHING with other people. The whole 7 years we have been together I can count on one hand how many times we have done something with friends. I hate that he is so lazy and acts his old age. He thinks because he works he does not have to do anything else. Then I asked if I could go and he still said no because then he would have to ...
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
Babies are happy campers they don't need much to be happy. I listened to a preaching the other day and it made sense kids only need two things in their life. Your love and discipline. I have two kids and I've been married for 3 years and honestly my two cents. If your not married you don't need the burden of raising another child. (Adult child) because I tend to baby mine but he's getting there very very slowly..