I didn't realize this until now. Hubby and I had a huge argument and it's clear that he's controlling me...I don't know…
I didn't realize this until now. Hubby and I had a huge argument and it's clear that he's controlling me...I don't know how to feel but secluded from how he has me now. I can't stop crying and I'm so clueless on what to do or how to fix this...ladies I can't make it as a single mom. I have to bare through this some how...
Naomi Israel ·
Been there... start saving up money to get out... most times it doesnt change...
Ally·
I had to leave. I told him what was wrong, that we needed to fix it. He had 2 weeks to show he was going to change or I was going to leave. I had to change in some ways too, bc i had become a different person. After 2 weeks if no change, or no effort, leave, nonatter what he says. Leave.. If he fights for you while your gone, tell him again he has a week, 2 tops to change and prove he's going to continue to work on things with you. If he completely blows up, throws u away, doesn't want to fight, then it wasn't meant to be
Ally·
I agree with @embracemthrhd2 .most times they don't change. It the change doesn't last. But you'll always wonder if he couldve changed and be better. My fiance and over the beginning had a HUGE fight. He was slowly trapping me in the house. I'm not sure if he realised he was doing it, but I gave him the chance to change, he thought i was a joke untill i actually left. Then he changed REAL quick. We still argue here and there, and it makes me wanna choke him, BUT we work on our problems and don't go to bed untill that problem is fixed