Soo I found out what I was having it's another girl I'm not excited at all tbh I'm blessed but I'm not happy this…

@shateira.davis, you're welcome! 😊😊😊

@morganmommy79 Thanks 😊 I really needed to hear that (well read that lol)

I know what you mean. 😊 It'll all work out in the end. Hopefully things look up sooner than you imagined.

@morganmommy79 thanks , I hope I mean I'm not saying I wanted to marry the guy I'm having this child by but I get what your saying I just wanted to finish what I'm doing with my life before I have another child and I wanted to have a child by the person I was going to marry in the future whom ever that might be is all .

I understand. I'm so sorry. I wanted to be married to the same man for 50+ years and raise my kids by their daddy and me. I ended up in divorce after 11 years and I never would've imagined I would be where I am today. Now I'm remarried and have a baby with my husband now and my older kids are from a broken home. I've cried and cried but there's nothing I can do to change it now. Only thing I can do is make the future better for my children. They are my world and you will prove to your kids how strong you are too just like I am. Sometimes life takes is where we don't want to go so we have to take that detour and make a scenic route out of it. You got this. ❤

@morganmommy79 tss I'm trying sometimes I catch myself crying because this is the last thing I wanted for myself I didn't want multiple baby dad's my two children has the same father this man took advantage of me and I feel sick to my stomach each and everyday single day I'm just not happy about this baby pregnancy or anything involving this matter .

Please don't give up! Lose him. But make him pay child support. He'll wish he would've forked over half the $ before. I'm glad he didn't tho because now you have this precious life that is part of you growing inside you. I know it's hard for you but once you ditch him and get that stress over with you can move on and take care of you and your babies. Where I live you can get more help not being married. I hope you find what you're looking for tho. You can do this. Prove him wrong and everyone that may doubt you. Hugs!!!

@morganmommy79 well he continues to say I trapped him with a baby when he didn't want to come up with half of the money for an abortion , mind you I'm completely against them but this point i am in right now in my life I really can't take care of a third child because of work ECT but he says everything is my fault when all he had to do is either use a condom pull out or even have his half of the money which he didn't provide on a few different occasions . Now everytime I call about anything he ignores me so on and so fourth I just want to wake up as if I'm in a dream I didn't want to have another illigenimant child I wanted to be married settled ECT before I had another he completely screwed me over and act as if it was me .

@rozrod that's not what I meant it's not because of the sex of my baby it's way deeper .

But! Even with a boy he will still act the same lol I'm in that position now I'm having a girl, a child won't change them. Think about it this way some are blessed with boys others with girls not e eryone can handle that God bless u to have strong women of the future

@shateira.davis, what's he up to? Some men don't get it. Some don't grow up :(

@morganmommy79 believe me I am too this the last thing I wanted for me or my baby .

Aww sorry to hear that. 😶