Don't mean to go on a rampage but I hate when a person tells me not to hold my baby to much your…

You can't spoil a newborn. They can't be spoiled til like 9 months or something lol

Lmao! Let me ask you this, where was your baby for nine months before she was born?

You carried her in your belly, right? Darn you for spoiling her lol. But seriously all babies want is the close feeling again. We carried them, they heard our voices and heartbeat and that is all that it is.

They need us and when we hold them it's not making them used to our arms or spoiling them. It's showing them we're mom and we are here, when your sad, scared, hungry, happy, just because you want hug or just want love.

It's an old wives tale. It's definitely not true. You carry your baby as much as you want. Our oldest we carried him everywhere! Once he started walking he didn't rely on us to carry him, he is seven and very independent. He's been cleaning his two rooms since he was three(bedroom and toy room) now he does dishes, vacuums, bathroom and take out the trash.

So according to the old wives tale if you carry your baby they we be spoiling and not want to do things on their own. Obviously that's not true 😂😂

Oh and my husband still carries him!

My in laws tell me that and they don't understand that it's 3 to 1....Mine are 11½ months and I feel like there isn't enough of me to go around some days! They will only want you to carry them for so long so you snuggle your little one as much and as often as you like. I think when they were little wearing and carrying helps cut down on crying.... Or maybe I just had good babies.

Agree agree agree!

Yes girl preach 🙌🙌🙌@mrs.c

Exactly @shellbell0391 thats just like people keep telling me my three month old needs to be on a sleep schedule like all she do is sleep how am i suppose to put her on a schedule when she sleeps 15-17 hours a day lol like they dont really need to seriously be on a set schedule till 6 months or older well thats when i started with my oldest people trip me out girl 😂😂

Yeah I have mine on a pretty set bedtime schedule but at daycare he falls asleep whenever he's tired lol and eats whenever he's hungry. There's no way to put him on a schedule

Exactly like their too young @shellbell0391

@proudmommy_0320 go off of what works for you and your family. I don't have my seven year old and my nine month old on a sleep schedule and they are both fine. Now I am not saying it will work for you and your children. It's what ever you decide.

When people start telling me things like that. I say ok then I need you here 24/7 And put them on a sleep schedule, oh and what two bills would you like to pay? 😂

That part 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@mrs.c

@proudmommy_0320 right?😂 girl, I hear it from everyone! Because I am very over protective. I never let me son get dirty. I had him in a private school and since we moved four hours away from. I am homeschooling him. Everyone is like he is going to be antisocial, weird not as smart as kids in school!. he is very outgoing, talks to everyone! Makes new friends at the park. He talks like an adult and he decided at age four he want to be a paleontologist. To this day he watches documentary, reads dinosaur research books.

The list goes on. I just get annoyed with people acting like they can tell you what will happen if you don't do this or that. It's nonsense.

Right like last time I checked Im the one that went through 9 months of hell not you that's what i be thinking girl @mrs.c

Seriously! I think people forgot about the basic rule we learned in kinder worry about yourself and not what your friend is doing Hahaha.

Omg my husband's sister tried to tell us we could not name our oldest Frankie(that's my husband) then she told me "well My daughter calls my dad papa, so I think all the grandchildren should call him that" lmao!

Well too bad too sad, because he calls him daddy's Dad. Lmao