Is it healthy to co-sleep without your husband? Every morning after her feed LO and I sleep in the…

Put your guest bed next to your bed

My husband is fine with it. I rarely do it but if I do, I don't really like the idea of not having the option of cuddling or getting busy with my husband because he's in between us.

I have a California king bed and baby boy have both of us on the edge.

Maybe buy a cosleeper instead that Way you don't have to worry about Sids or you or him rolling over on her

@beebaby, I agree..cuz your LO will be a mover-

I co sleep because I don't get much sleep if I don't. However, I'm going to try the pack n play next to my bed now because I think she's sleeping better. I have to try and see. But I don't think it's healthy for very long to co sleep. I've been sleeping with the baby in a chaise lounge since she's been born. I miss my husband. He misses me. We no longer have an intimate relationship and it affects men greatly. If you choose to co sleep make sure you make time for your husband. My first husband got a little jealous because all my attn went to the baby. I totally left him hanging with my first baby. He started watching porn and stuff since we no longer had a relationship. I'm not saying every man will do this but they need us too. Sexually. I'm trying very hard to get my relationship back on track now with my husband. It's a strain on our relationship because I'm devoting all my time to the baby and not us, too.

@morganmommy79, That makes alot of sense! It doesnt sound healthy even though i prefer it 😐. Right now she is in her pack n play, But when She sleeps in my bed in the morning she sleeps alot better..and I worry alot. I feel like if shes closer to me I can feel her breathe and i know shes gonna stay warm 😕...imma weirdo right?

@bosw1805, no! Not a weirdo. Just a good mommy. It's so hard to let them go to their own space. Wait until they're teens and want to drive, go on trips out of town... 😫

@morganmommy79, uhh i dont even want to think about it 😫