Wednesday I will have to choose between taking this pill or doing a d&c. Any advice or experience…

@calysmommy, I think dnc will be better for my mental health too

I decided to go with the d&c as well. For lack of better words to just get it over so I could start to heal emotionally and physically.. I'm so sorry you're going through this.

@ohbabybaby88, thank you. I'm lucky to have lots of support, just isn't an easy thing to go through.

@liz41395 yes you are I went through mine secretly it was the worst

I had the d&c...it gets it all done at once and you don't have to see anything or think about it more than youd want to and it only hurts for a minute. I've heard that the pill drags things out and is very painful.

I'm sorry you have to go through this hun.. Losing a baby is never easy.. I'll be praying for you and your family!! ❤

@jcbaby, thank you so much

@shay2beautiful, thank you! Prayers are definitely needed!

When I miscarried I didn't get no option I just bled for almost or about 2 weeks felt like I was on my period .. and I got pregnant again literally a month after which was my next period .. prayers to you I know exactly what u went through ❤️

@dariyanalovee, mine is a missed miscarriage so the baby isn't alive, but I'm not bleeding or anything so it's still in me. I'm so sorry you had to go through that though. I feel like all the bleeding would make it even more emotional to me

I'm so sorry for your loss😢

I'm in the SAME boat right now. Do NOT do the pill. It will put your body into labour. Not worth it at all and very traumatizing. The D&C is literally 10-15 min and you will be put to sleep.