Why is it so hard to conceive. Trying for 2 years now, I just feel hopeless 😔 I'm finishing my last birth control pack- they put me on 3 months of it to regulate my menstrual cycles this is it. If this doesn't work I don't think I can continue to try. It's so disheartening to see all these girls my age around me getting pregnant on accident when I try so hard and do everything right. I'm taking prenatal, exercising, lost 80 pounds to get healthy last year, taking my BBT regularly, tracking cycles. It's just so hard to watch women become pregnant and they didn't even want their blessing in the first place.