So my husband van the transmission is going and I ask is mother to come and help me get food for my kids and she text my husband and said she was get really to leave and she start puking all over and can't make and tommorw my husband has a test for a job . what should , beacuse at first she was text me think to find someone to watch her and then she text my husband that she make I think she lied beacuse she doesn't want to come up here . but she with drop anything for her sister to help your with her kids , beacuse not us . what do you think about this , oh yeah we have help her out with stuff .