@shannonn95, yeah I think a good talk will do you well babe at least you'll get it off your chest. A routine will be the best thing too. What me and Hubby do is if I give Zak his last night bottle then Hubby gets up at night with him. The next day Hubby will give Zak the last bottle feed and I'll get up at night. We just take turns that way. I honestly just refuse to put up with doing it all on my own. I need rest too I can't go on like a zombie it's not fair. We both decided to have a baby together so I shouldn't see why I should do it all on my own now. I know I was so worried when I found out about baby no2. Tbh I still am but he's saying he'll be there to help me so for now I can just take his word xxx

@mullika91, exactly! I've tried explaining that he was great the first couple of nights and then I think the novelty of having a baby just wore off for him, gonna have to have a serious talk with him when he gets back and try and compromise a routine for night because once it gets to bed time I'm dreading it! And he's got a week off next week so I'm gonna try and make the most of it and catch up on my sleep, can't imagine being pregnant like you and doing all this as well, women are so much tougher than men! Xxx

@shannonn95, I totally get you!!! You know what I do I refuse to do anything for him until he acknowledges how much I actually do when he's at work. I understand he works and is bringing in the income but raising a child is much more difficult than men like to believe! Don't ask him to do anything tell him. Men are like babies themselves! I know it sounds so harsh but you also need a break to breathe before you have a complete meltdown. It's not healthy for you especially so soon after giving birth you still need lots of rest your body needs the time to health and recover from such a life changing event xxx

@clare_louise13 I'm the same stressing about coping! I was there in the middle of the night with baby screaming top note whilst he pretended to sleep and I didn't know whether to cry, scream with the baby or fucking kick my partner in the head I was so mad I was like I can't cope with this any longer 😡 and @mullika91 we are always having the massive quiet arguments too 😂 they're so funny when you look back but at the time I just want to absolutely kill him! I appreciate him working for us but even if he'd just get up once with him in the night I'd be so grateful or if my housework was actually acknowledged, feel like going on strike for a day 🖕🏻 xxx

Ugh I feel all you ladies!! Me and Hubby had a massive quiet argument the other night 😂. I'm laughing now but I swear my blood was boiling at the time!!! I refuse to put up with his bs of him working all week. Us ladies work 7 days a week day and night!! With no break!!! Whilst maintaining a household! During the weekends I purposely leave Zakariyya with his dad and make my Hubby do majority of the things just so he knows how difficult it is and not to bloody take the piss. Even when he pretends to sleep I wake him up!! I didn't produce this child on my own! I'm more than happy to go to work and he can be the stay at home dad. He wouldn't last a day!! Stay strong ladies we got this!! 💪🏼 xxxx

@shannonn95 I'm with you on this one! Got a 3 week old and do all night feeds as my husband has to be up at 8 everyday for work!! Why does that mean he can't help out at night I don't know....not like I'm resting and sleeping all day is it?! I've got a 4 year old to run after aswell and do nursery school runs...I'm slowly losing my mind and it's only been 3 weeks I'm really stressing out at how I'm going to cope 👎😣

@shannonn95, I get you!! And I miss meeting him for the first time and all the newborn squeaks ahah!! So cute!! Xxx

@lauren1996 I know me too! We've got a holiday booked for next year when he'll be 15 months so I was thinking of trying after that so that he'll be at least 2 by the time. I just miss the feeling of first meeting him and them first few days I loved it and all the praise I had wasn't bad either 😂 xxx

@shannonn95, I know right!!

Don't get me wrong I would love another little one right now! But I know I will have to do it all on my own! And I had a shit pregnancy and I don't think I would be able to physically do it on my own and being sick every morning! So I'm trying to wait until McKenzie is a little more independent! Preferably about 2 years old? Maybe a little older if I can ahah but I'm so broody!xxxx

@lauren1996 😂😂😂 cracked me up! I don't understand how men work it makes me laugh when I have a rant on this app because they're all the absolute same! If I didn't have this app I'd crack up thinking it was me who was losing the plot! I was really broody thinking how I want another baby but last night I was thinking the exact same fuck that this one is hard enough by myself at the moment 😂 xxx

@shannonn95, that's why I havnet left McKenzie I think in total I've left him for maybe a few hours and that's not all at one time it's spread out throughout 7 months with Jordan my OH and I've still been in the house so if I hear him I can run in!

But what makes me piss myself laughing right is Jordans like I know your broody do you want another baby!

I was like naahh!! Fuck you I will end up looking after two babies on my own all day and night whilst he does sweet FUCK all as usual! Seriously like!xxx

@mimibear wow 😵 i suppose you do get used to it yeah I've already noticed I find it easier waking up through the night if I just accept that I'm not going to get much sleep beforehand, it's just nights like last night when he's really upset and kicking off restless all night and there's someone there that could help but won't that the aggravating part! all definitely machines 💪🏻😂 xx

9 months for me lol Evelyn still doesn't sleep through and I'm pretty much a walking zombie every day of the week. In the end your body sort of adjusts.to the lack of sleep, almost lol my other half gets up for work at 5:30 so he has never woken up with her throughout the night because he gets up so early. Us mothers are machines!!! X

@lauren1996 exactly it's not as easy as they think at all! Some famous Mum I follow on Facebook said the other day when it's like running at the side of someone running a marathon for 5 minutes and then saying to them oh that's not so hard, they don't understand id love to just go and stay at my friends for one night and day and see how he copes so he could really get it but I couldn't leave him all I'd be doing is worrying myself sick imagining him crying all night! I don't know how you've managed for 7 months I've only done a month and I'm ready for sectioning myself here xxx

And he's always banging on saying your life is so easy looking after a baby all you do is cuddle up to him and play, but when I made him watch him half hour the other day so I could bath when he came home from work he was pulling his hair out because McKenzie was crawling over to everything and pulling everything off shelves and Jordan had to get up every minute or so and he's like "how do you do this all day?"

I said to him it's not as easy as you think! Xxxx

@shannonn95, I've done this for 7 months all on my own getting up throughout the night doin alll the feeds and changing him! Because Jordan's at work and leaves for 7 he's never done it and I kinda regret doing it all on my own because I don't get help now 😩😩xxx

Yeah then dom makes out I've got a cheek to be tired when he works 😂. Yet I'm up all hours of the morning bloody joke. Men are just lazy asses. He's only feeding lily now cos I've got a hospital appointment lol xx

Funny thing is that he doesn't snore but when he pretends to sleep the dickhead puts on the fakest snore in the world it's ridiculous 😂

Ano 😤😤 the gimps 😂@shannonn95 xxx

@xxjadeleannebxx, @sarahrose569, men ay! 🔫🔫🔫 who'd have them 😂xxx

Sounds like my fella I said u was OK making him tho they do my head in make him do it now before he thinks he can just leave it to u ! Am constantly tired xxx @shannonn95

@sarahrose569 6 months 😵 I don't know how you do it! It really winds me up when he wakes up and says 'I have work in the morning' as if to say 'can you be quiet' it's like yeah you might be at fucking work but then I'm up all day with a baby and trying to look after the house as well he doesn't realise how hard it is, he gets in from work and will hold the baby for about 5 minutes till he starts crying and the hell pass me the baby and say 'I can't cope' don't think they realise their as much their responsibility as they are ours 😒 xxx

Yeah dom does that he never wakes up with lily ever! I told you that ages ago. They seem to think it's not there responsibility to get up when they have work he doesn't even get up when he's off so. Xxx

Welcome to my world he think cos he gets up at 6 he is entitled to a full nights sleep I do 2 night feeds and get up at 6 my self sometimes sleep on the couch cos he snores like a elephant! ! I have done every night feed in 6 months he annoys me and says I just can't do it 😦😐xxx

@xxjadeleannebxx oh god 🙈 we ed up having these crazy arguments in the middle of the night that sound like we're just having a quite conversation but really it's like death threats and loads of whispered swearing because we don't wanna argue in front of Arlo 😂 he thinks cause he's at work it's my job to get up all the time through the night which is bullshit i told him we need to share it cause it's driving me round the twist when I'm up with a screaming baby and he's pretending to be asleep xx

I'm in one of them moods alot lately cos dom snores so I've been making a bed in lily's room so I can get sleep but then lily wakes up for her bottle then doesn't go back down then when I'm wide awake she goes to sleep 😴 bloody frustrating haha. Xx