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Ciaran Hamilton
ciciham
Ciaran Hamilton
Hey mommies, I just need to vent a little. Today we were about to go out to dinner and I put a dress on and looked in the mirror, thinking I looked a little big and as if I were still pregnant but then I brushed it off and said I'm just being too hard on myself and it's normal at 5 weeks post partum. I went into the living room and hubby jokingly said "oh hey you're expecting again". I knew he didn't mean it and didn't really think before saying it, but he could tell it hurt me and immediately felt terrible and apologized. I told him my self esteem is something I've really been struggling with and that it hurt me because that's exactly what I said about myself when I looked in the mirror. I've never seen him regret his words so much. I love him and of course I forgive him, I know he would never try to hurt me and he is probably beating himself up over this. But I just can't stop thinking about it. I keep hearing it again in my head and my heart is sinking. How do I get over this and just forget it all happened? Having a tough time with this due to PPD :/
15.05.2017
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cassienka
cassienka
Yasss ladies!!! I'm 28 & was bigger than ever starting this second pregnancy. I was tiny my (compared to now lol) last pregnancy. You just work on what you want to work on with your body but also learn to love it. You carried a life inside of you! That's a beautiful miracle! Be proud of all the ways pregnancy shaped you. You're a mommy and that's amazing. Another thing that may help with confidence if you're feeling low could be to buy a shaper from Walmart or something. I used to wear them all the time after my pregnancy. It just holds in the belly a bit and feels like a hug. :-)
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jada.weidner.jw
jada.weidner.jw
I understand dealing with a whole new body is extremely hard on self esteem. I had my daughter when I was 17yrs old she is now almost 3yrs old. For three yrs I have been embarrassed about my body in so many ways. The stretch marks, the flabby belly, the saggy boobs, the love handles. I swear I had a perfect body before I had her. I tried everything stretch mark cream, tightening cream, waist trainer, boob work outs. I won't lie and say it don't bother me but I will say you are not alone and 95% of women go thru what we go thru they just never talk about it with other women. So just know your not at all alone!
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studio.ghibli.mom23
studio.ghibli.mom23
@ciciham,
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studio.ghibli.mom23
studio.ghibli.mom23
Ok first off if that's you in the last post holy shit you look amaze balls dude I wish I looked as good as you do postpartum I still look about 4 months pregnant and no matter what I do I'll always have a flap fold from my c section my stomach will never be flat again so I've given up on losing weight but you look A M A M Z I N G ! ! ! 😍 I'm here for you if you wanna talk
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