Well my husband just asked for a divorce. What a great day to decide to do that.... I feel like a worthless wife and mother. I don't even know what I'm here for anymore
You are not the worthless one here. You are amazing. He is the one who can't handle being a husband and father to two beautiful children , he's looking for the easy way out to be a weekend dad and a single man again. Don't let him belittle you, you got this. Seriously, get all your legal ducks in a row and find out your best move forward from this.
If he ends up not following through tell him you want couples counseling asap.
Wtf are you serious. What a piece of shit...get as much as you can from him during this. Don't back down from anything, get a lawyer asap and see if you can make him pay for it. Get a free consultation tomorrow. This was not ok. I'm so sorry.