I should be able to express myself to my husband without him needing to feel mad because I'm…

I should be able to express myself to my husband without him needing to feel mad because I'm expressing it. He just got upset because I told him how I feel and even if it was the wrong time to ask, he said no words of security for me. and left me in the dark with now I feel. That's not right. I shouldn't be afraid to express myself just because if I do, it gets him mad. Grow up like I'm never gonna say things at the right time, shit I'm not perfect. So don't get mad because I don't know when's the best time to ask!!!