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I'm probably going to sound petty and childish but here it goes. My friend is getting married this…

I'm probably going to sound petty and childish but here it goes. My friend is getting married this next Friday so the 19th. I'm excited but absolutely annoyed and don't even want to go. She had asked me to be a brides maid before we found out we was pregnant i of course say yes and was excited to be there as her brides maid. But when she found out we was expecting she told me I wasn't going to be in her wedding party because she felt like I would be miserable even though the ceremony itself it 30mins. I just told her whatever she wanted I would be fine standing up there or sitting in the pews. She has asked me for a lot of help but always says well if it wasn't for this person i would have nothing done but yet I've been helping her plan stuff. Her maid of honor hasn't helped her went mia for weeks and still holds the spot while I'm helping her plan I was going to go to her bachelorette party but they all decided they was going to be getting drunk so she exd me out even though I offered to be the dd. Then she plans for them to get their nails done right in front of me and doesn't even ask if I would like to join. I was planning her honeymoon as they wasn't going to have one and then when I was going to pay for it she calls and says don't worry about it my dad is going to pay and then she ended up taking the money from her dad and doing other stuff with it.

I just feel hurt she tells everyone well she's my best friend was going to be a brides maid but found out she was pregnant a month after I asked her. I tend to bend over backwards for people and help when they ask. I saved her over 200$ on just food alone because I found a cheaper way for the catering it was just a different company bringing the same food. I helped her figure out where she was having her wedding when her mil told her she couldn't use the land. I've made countless trips into town getting crafts to make some of the stuff for her wedding. But she never says thanks or gives credit to anyone but the person that helped her make her bouquet and guess who just figured out the plans for her bachelorette party when many of the girls bailed out and I'm not even invited yea just done with it and ready for it to end. I literally have my husbands mom to talk to and all I want is a damn friend but this is what I get when I'm the friend that everyone says they want because I'm always there no matter the time reason or when I just do it.

bria13.05.2017

Мама дочки-младенца

Cut her off. Went through the same shit and wound up not even going to the wedding

Lupita Hurtado13.05.2017

В ожидании первенца

I would cut her off/stop helping. I'd be focused on getting stuff ready for when baby comes.

I'm probably going to sound petty and childish but here it goes. My friend is getting married this…

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