Honestly yall mamas making me scared of marrige.. reading all these issues that lays within a marriage is scary.. im…

@brittxxdee in 60 years..... it will still be the same.....

@brittxxdee, I totally understand. Some people can be perfectly happy without marriage. I would have been. The wedding was just a great memory to make and another sign of the commitment we had already made to each other. No judgements either way from me. I only wanted to point out that marriage doesn't always change things 😊

@ecahanes, @saraseek1,

@babytj0214, but honestly ur still in the honeymoon phase you only been married for a year no disrespect but i know marriage aint all butterflies and ect but nah marriage isnt just for us and as of now we dnt need rings or paper to justify what we got .... ima tag the rest of the ladies even though the message isnt directed towards them @twinmomma2b, @marthaelisa17, @jloop7509, @towens921,

@brittxxdee marriage changed us in a good way! at least once a month we are both like, we are married!!!! he's like yeah! and have a baby! he always tell me I'm his best friend and his favorite person in the world ! when loves finds you, don't be scared. embrace it and celebrate!

I'm not gonna lie. marriage changes your relationship somewhat. but that's not always a bad thing. I have to work at my marriage just like everyone has to put in work with their relationships. but I love being married to my bestfriend. marrying him was the best decision of my life! it's your choice, if your happy the way things are, keep it that way. if you think it would change your relationship for the worst and it'd be just a name change and a signed piece if paper and a ring on your finger I'd say just keep it the way it is. but for me it made my relationship with my husband a hell of a lot stronger now that we are married! we do have our struggles and our petty arguments (mainly cause I'm a bitch) but at the end of the day it's me being able to call my best friend my husband and I love it!

@marthaelisa17, 8years ?? Honestly i am happy for you and thank you for sharing your stories with me @babytj0214, congrats on the marriage but honestly im happy marriage is not where i want to be right now

@jloop7509, ohh gosh talk about pressure

For me personally speaking, marriage is not a feeling it's a commitment. I can feel so many different emotions at certain times in my marriage, but my devotion and love for my husband is unchanging! Emotions can lead us to do or say things we only mean in a moment. I believe many women (wives) speak out of hurt and frustration but really do love their husbands. I think every marriage has their strong and weak points. Marriage is one of the most challenging things but also the most beautiful thing you can experience when it's with the right person and it's healthy. My first marriage was horrible, but through it I learned so much! Now, I'm married to a wonderful loving husband. So even though one experience was bad,I didn't close myself to the possibility of trying it again. I met the right man and it's a healthy relationship. We will be married 8 years in October and he truly is my best friend! And we have 2 children together and he took in my daughter from my previous marriage with open arms when her biological father rejected her. So you see, there is always a bright side to every dark side. This is by no means to pressure you into getting married, but letting you see the positive in it. 😊

everytime I go to work or he has to go to work, it's like we kiss for like 50 times and hug 60 times before letting each other go lol..... so don't think bad of it! when I was prego everyone said everything bad and no one ever told me the good part. I ignored everyone and i had an amazing pregnancy with both my kids! I don't listen to people. everyone has a different page in their life, that's y we have different lives. love conquers all. sounds silly but it's true!

don't think like that. no one is perfect and no marriage is perfect. doesnt mean u will have a crappy marriage..... my husband and I ha e been together for 5 years now and got married last year and everyday, we still look into each other's eyes.like we are 12 years old. we text each other I love u or he says it all the time. we actually never fight, just little argument that last like 1 minute lol.... we still have amazing sex every week and it's great! so don't think bad about it!!!! he knew that he wanted to marry me a long time ago. he just kept it to himself!!!! and stayed quiet lol

@brittxxdee lol mine is the same. I was 8 months pregnant and she asked me if I thought about getting married before the baby got here.... Lol find a dress to fit and I'll be at the wedding

@jloop7509, i will and i can completely understand my grandma is highly religious and she preferred me to have gotten married before kids but we are happy as is!! Smh she still asks me though literally every month "soo when do you and SO plan on getting married"

Lol not look

@brittxxdee I feel you! I live in a very religious community and am looked down upon for being happily unmarried. Stay strong look

@jloop7509, i will but thats the major point im trying to make honestly i rather keep it the way it is and just not get married

If you're fine now then why would you get married? I've seen couples make it ten years and then get divorced after a year or 2 of marriage .it changes you. But for any relationship to last the most important part is communication. Always have open communication and loving words. I hope you stay happy with any path you choose

Being married is awesome yes it has its struggles but just like every relationship...personally I think it makes you even more of a team and in it for the long haul

@towens921, idk im coming from a background where no one is married well except my grandmother but i wasnt obviously around for that plus i never saw my granddad before he passes so yeah..

Exactly what @saraseek1 said. I'm very happily married. Nothing will be perfect. You have to work through things that's all.

@saraseek1, i herd that but ive seen different

It's not marriage itself that has the issues. I'm very happily married. If your relationship is what it should be, marriage shouldn't change a thing