I never say much on here but I'm having a problem. I can't seem to adjust to being a mother of two.…
I never say much on here but I'm having a problem.
I can't seem to adjust to being a mother of two. I love both my children unconditionally but I feel like I'm not doing things right. I was a wonder mother of one. Did everything I was supposed to do. Schedules. Bed times. Activities. Now I just seem so busy with work and a new baby. I feel irritated. I don't have patients or energy. I feel like I'm always yelling all the time. I feel like running away sometimes..and it hurts. I just want to cry. How do you do it? What am I supposed to do? I want to be me again....
marcie·
Hey! I've been their! Omg ! it gets better! Take it one day at a time, and realize that everything doesn't have to be perfect! If dinner doesn't get done one night so be it ! If the house don't get clean one day so be it ! We overthink everything and trying to be Supermom and it's so overwhelming, and when the kids go to sleep take some time for yourself!!!
Dani Keller·
@macella.moultry I feel like I'm not doing enough for them. My oldest is always hanging on me while I change diapers and stuff..im yelling at him for that. I always have a headache and I yell at him for screaming. Their dad is not much of a help. He plays with them from the couch. I feel like their bored. It hasn't been nice out to go outside. Plus they are on antibioticss. I live in a tiny house. Ugh..i can go on. That's the thing. I want things to be perfect. I want my kids to be happy. It's like I have a ancer just holding me down from everything.
marcie·
You're going to always feel like it's not enough!! You have to sit back and try try try to relax I used to have to lock myself in the bathroom and cry it out and breathe in and breathe out! It was absolutely terrible I end up having to go and talk to someone because I end up getting severely depressed! I had to realize it's not going to be perfect even though my husband thinks it supposed to be!! You will get through it you're 💪🏿!! And always talk it out if you have to call someone or contact me here that always helps! I cried for about a month because I'm scared that I'm going to get the same way with my third, but at least I'm a little more prepared this time, lol but you are not alone!!