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I really need to hear advice, please don't judge my questioning thoughts I'm already stressed out... so I had no plan on…

I really need to hear advice, please don't judge my questioning thoughts I'm already stressed out... so I had no plan on getting pregnant. I even did take plan b. I'm 19 years old and still live at home. I currently am in a lot of financial situations with student loans and car payments and such. I did go to school to be an emt just have to pass the state exam and I have a full time job lined up. The "baby's dad" feels I should "get rid of the baby". I am not one who ever even thought about getting an abortion unless something seriously medical was at stake. He did say if I'd choose to keep the baby that he would do everything he can to be there cause he isn't going to let me raise a child myself. I'm just really stressed out and I am 5 weeks pregnant btw.... any advice or words of wisdom please share. I'm an emotional wreck..

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@miller13, is right. You should definitely tell someone that you know won't judge you and support you. Seems that you have a future ahead of you. Do what is right for you. I'm glad the baby's father is being supportive with all this. This is tough I know, but there's always a good reason behind it no matter what the case is. wish for the best!💚💛❤💙💜

snarfyk

Maria

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Have you spoke to your parents and told then yet? I know your scared, but you need someone in your corner.

miller13

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I am one who is totally against abortion but if you feel your not ready to raise a child there are always adoption or just do research on moms who aren't lucky to have a child and be their carrier... You just need to pray love and really think about your decision... A baby is a beautiful blessing and the love is so unconditional that there are no words to explain the feeling... You can always private message if you want to talk... Im a good listener... @maddie202

olivia113

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Also the father also lives an hour and a half away from me

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!