I really need to hear advice, please don't judge my questioning thoughts I'm already stressed out... so I had no plan on getting pregnant. I even did take plan b. I'm 19 years old and still live at home. I currently am in a lot of financial situations with student loans and car payments and such. I did go to school to be an emt just have to pass the state exam and I have a full time job lined up. The "baby's dad" feels I should "get rid of the baby". I am not one who ever even thought about getting an abortion unless something seriously medical was at stake. He did say if I'd choose to keep the baby that he would do everything he can to be there cause he isn't going to let me raise a child myself. I'm just really stressed out and I am 5 weeks pregnant btw.... any advice or words of wisdom please share. I'm an emotional wreck..
Have you spoke to your parents and told then yet? I know your scared, but you need someone in your corner.
I am one who is totally against abortion but if you feel your not ready to raise a child there are always adoption or just do research on moms who aren't lucky to have a child and be their carrier... You just need to pray love and really think about your decision... A baby is a beautiful blessing and the love is so unconditional that there are no words to explain the feeling... You can always private message if you want to talk... Im a good listener... @maddie202
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So I have question I'm 23 weeks and I thought a 9 lbs weight gain was good but now I'm re thinking it what is normal at this stage is it to much I'm stressing out I am really watching what I eat and I really don't over eat sad mommy here 😔
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
I can’t stress this enough, PLEASE TIP YOUR SERVER!!
Sorry tmi I know but I need advice or opinions, who else would get mad at their boyfriend for watching porn?? Am I the only one?? If he was single whatever go for it but I'm his gf! He shouldn't be watching that crap!
@miller13, is right. You should definitely tell someone that you know won't judge you and support you. Seems that you have a future ahead of you. Do what is right for you. I'm glad the baby's father is being supportive with all this. This is tough I know, but there's always a good reason behind it no matter what the case is. wish for the best!💚💛❤💙💜