Someone please tell me that my boyfriend and I are not the only couple who has fought a little more…
Someone please tell me that my boyfriend and I are not the only couple who has fought a little more often after having a baby. 😣 He was outside working on his truck. I had just told him 10 minutes prior that our baby wasn't feeling well, she has a lot of built up gas. Well then I had sent him a text from inside and asked him to come in and help me because she was fussing and I wanted to change her diaper and put her lotion on and get her into warm pjs but I needed his help getting everything while I tried calming her down. He said okay. So I sat here and waited trying to calm her tummy and do her exercises to help get the bubbles going and 5 minutes passes. So I just said screw it, sent him a text saying never mind and got up and got everything myself. He came in and got mad at me because "I got upset after only 5 minutes." I said I texted you asking for help. Why wouldn't you come right in and help me? He said he didn't realize it was something important. So why wouldn't you just come in and help me whether you think it's important or not?? Do I have a right to be upset here?? Why are we fighting over such stupid stuff? ): we barely even argued before I got pregnant. And please don't assume he's a bad guy just because of this one event.
Robyn·
@kelanielove42717 oh yes you will have the pettiest stupidiest fights.. it happens. Especially after having a baby. I would be upset to, but its not worth getting into a fight.. you just have to pick and choose your battles
Kaylee Redman·
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@lovefaithkindness, that's true. I guess my hormones are just still outta whack. Everything seems to upset me ):
Robyn·
@kelanielove42717 well after having a baby its to be expected. But maybe you two just need to talk. Tell him how you feel and just tell him you need his help. Its hard especially after giving birth.
Kaylee Redman·
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@haley-lamb, I guess I was just annoyed because I just told him she doesn't feel good and he made me feel like it wasn't important. I'm just looking too deep into it, though.
Kaylee Redman·
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@haley-lamb, thank you. That helps. It really does.
Kaylee Redman·
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@lovefaithkindness, yeah I tried. He just gets mad thinking I'm trying to say he isn't helping at all. 🙄
Kaylee Redman·
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@haley-lamb, haha well thank you
Lacie Marie·
You have every right. Ive been married almost 4 years and been together almost 5. Its tough at times! Message me if you need someone
Kaylee Redman·
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@laciemarie, thank you(:
Steph·
Yea, when you are sleep deprived anything can set you off. My kids are out of the infant stage but I remember those days. A newborn is a lot of work and sometimes they cry all day. It just happens. Try not to let it get to you. It will get better!! It takes time to manage a new baby in your relationship.
Steph·
We have been married almost 8 years so I am here to talk!
Kaylee Redman·
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@scarapella1, thank you(: we talked about it and you're right I'm just tired so the little things irritate me. It'll get easier(: