Mommas, question! At how many weeks or months did you feel comfortable going out and have someone…
Mommas, question! At how many weeks or months did you feel comfortable going out and have someone (whom you trust) watch your baby? My hubby and I have a dodger game coming up and idk if I'm ready. She will be around 6+ish weeks.
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Everyone's different. I left my son for 3 hours when he was 4 weeks to go to the er & i was an emotional wreak i kept looking at his pics lol i felt like i was neglecting him.. then i had to go back to work when he was about 5 1/2 months so that was a little better.
Crystal ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I think any time is a good time, as long as you are ready and are comfortable with it. And obviously, if you are exclusively breastfeeding, your baby needs to be able to take a bottle. 😉
I need to take my own advice, though, cause my daughter is 9 months old and I haven't been apart from her for longer than an hour... not even with daddy there. 😅
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@b3autymarkk23, lol I feel like I'm gonna be a bad mom for leaving! I left my husband at the ER bc I didn't want to leave my babygirl. Lol.
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@islandcrystal79, I know right! I keep telling myself I'm ready but somehow I'm nervous about the day approaching. Anddd since I am exclusively BF I'm also nervous about giving her a bottle and her not want my boob anymore. Ugh. I seriously feel like I overthink everything. Lol.
Kenya Larissa D. 🎀·
i started working when my baby turned a month & even tho my moms taking care of her its hard i wanna go straight home after work & my hubby wants to atleast go eat before we get home to have alone time but i can never do it. its hard i hear babies at work & think about mine like what if shes home crying ☹️ lol
Crystal ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@sunflowerchildmamaa Totally understandable, girl! Just remember... Do what is right for YOU and your daughter. Don't worry about anyone else
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@babeylarissa, omg yes! My hubby wants to do the same sometimes but it's so scary. It just doesn't sit with me. Lol. I might have to sit this dodger game out for now.
Kenya Larissa D. 🎀·
well than again u do have to give urselves alone time some times i feel bad too cus i dont want to u know
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@babeylarissa, completely true. There's times when I don't want to either. Like I'll be more worried about the baby. And we haven't had the dirty since i was like 7 months prego Lol. I seriously don't know how moms of multiples manage it all. I salute them.
Michelle·
I took my LO with me to the game and she made it on TV
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@michelle-, lmao! Omg no way! That's awsome!!! 😂😂😍😍 how many months was she when you took her?
Michelle·
@sunflowerchildmamaa, 10 weeks, the only time she got really startled was when they hit a grand slam and she just went to sleep but she feel back to sleep right after.
Kenya Larissa D. 🎀·
yeah especially that! when my hubby wants to have sex or something its literally ALWAYS at the wrong time & it kinda sucks cus we have to scheduele it like okay when she sleep we'll do it & than when she does sleep all we wanna do is sleep too lol
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@babeylarissa, lol same here!! I'm hoping it'll get easier as they grow up. Right now it's just adjusting to micro manage everything. And honestly I don't feel comfortable enough for "sexy time" yet. + I had a c section. Lol.
Kenya Larissa D. 🎀·
i dont feel comfortable cus i feel like deep down she knowssss lmao
Crystal ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@michelle- omgeeee! Cutest thing ever!
Crystal ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@sunflowerchildmamaa Has it been 6 weeks yet? Have you even gotten cleared from your 0B/ GYN yet anyways? 😉
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@islandcrystal79, 6 weeks next Friday! Almost. Lol.