So here I am suffering from ppd which is making me physically sick, and my SO isn't helping it, I feel like my life is a constant blur now, and I feel like he's not trying in this relationship "romance wise" to him it's all about sex, I can understand why he craves that type of attention all the time, ha 9 months is a long time, but that's not all I want in a relationship, plus what he doesn't understand is my body isn't fully done healing itself, and he makes me feel like a bad mom. Like when baby was born and not being able to see or hold my child till 5 hours later due to complications, I as a ftm kissed my baby on the mouth, and my SO looks at me and say "you can't kiss him on the mouth" 😶😮and I just can't help to feel that me and my depression is better off without him. I don't know how to save my relationship.... i don't even know if I want to at this point! Tired of the BS! Just wanna feel normal again and wanna feel like I'm more than an object... I shouldn't even be feeling this way... I guess I'm reaching out to you ladies for advice and thoughts on what I should do. Oh let's not forget, everything i do isn't right that's how he treats me, and here lately I've noticed him telling me to shut up about things involving my child and I don't deserve any of that... I guess I'm trying to say is he doesn't let me have a say in anything including my baby. And I'm fed up!
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Thank you so much, I appreciate all of yalls support cause thats what I need the most..I told him last night that I didn't wanna be in a relationship anymore, but we talked and slowly trying to work it out to were we both are happy! I just can't co parent with such an asshole to be honest
One don't let a guy tell you how be a MOTHER it's nature it comes from within 2!!!!! Kiss your baby where ever the hell you want 😤 you're mommy I kiss my daughter on the lips and no one else can smh!! I went through ppd and no one understood me it's the hardest time in a mothers life think positive and you can get through this💜
Yea I just wanna be free and not feel trapped, thank you for your comment I'm really trying to cope with too much at once
Geez I totally understand and honestly I wouldn't deal with that kind of Bs you carried that child for 9 months and experienced things he could never. He needs to respect you a whole hell of a lot more and if he can't do that fuck him move on
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