So when I was about 12 my sisters husband at the time took advantage of me and had his way with me for 3 years and had…

So when I was about 12 my sisters husband at the time took advantage of me and had his way with me for 3 years and had me so afraid to say anything and when I did no one believed me. Now everyone knows what happened my sister is back with him and my brother is graduating Saturday. Her ex husband is going to be there and at the lunch. He's a very huge trigger for my depression and he's the root of my problems. I texted my brother telling him me, my husband, and melody wouldn't be there because we all don't want to be around him. This is what he said... am I in the wrong? Because I'm so confused...
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Definitely not wrong. Sometimes people don't understand your struggle and just want to sweep it under the rug. You have to do what is best for you and your mental health. If you don't feel comfortable then don't go. You shouldn't have to compromise how you feel about this situation. What you went through is a big deal. Maybe you can see your brother afterwards or celebrate at a different time.
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