It's really hard. He's acting like everything is fine and it was just a in the moment thing we went through but I'm trying to get him to actually talk to me about it @gee07,
Life isn't always going to be easy obstacles. I would definitely get the "Fireproof" handbook. Doesn't matter how he's treating you. If he sees your behavior is changing for the good and he can't effect you in a negative way, he'll either want to change also (which is more likely), or he'll want to leave. Don't give up, because it's easier to walk away. You're stronger than that.
Be sweet. Be loving. And when the time to talk comes, he will be more open to hear u. You can let your desires and thoughts be known without making him feel belittled or like a child. Love him bc he's your husband. Do not let resentment build. That will drive u away. Yes he's the one and fault but u can be his peace and he will come around a lot easier that way.
I know it is. Be God's idea of a wife & pray for him. When things are in correct order it will all fall into place. Just be submissive to him & nice. Bring him up, not down. He will eventually come around.
Time to sit down with him & talk about it. I bet if you start showing him respect he will eventually do the same. It's gonna take you starting it first though because his pride won't let him start until he sees you trying. Me & my hubby went through this too.